(SEXUAL)Please help me! i dont know what to do.. and im so NERVOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Question: (SEXUAL)Please help me! i dont know what to do.. and im so NERVOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
On Thursday its me and my girl friends one month, we have been dating for one month, were both 16...
and neither one of us have EVER done any thing (besides kissed, and made out), were both very innocent, we were talking and decided that Thursday we want to do some thing, i told her i dont want to go all the way (i dont plan on it any ways) what should we do? and are we to young to be doing any thing like this?
how old were you when you lost your virginity or did any thing like that (like hand jobs, blow jobs, eating out, fingering, and so on)
You may say thats to early, but were both crazy for each other, and like each other alot!
and she said ok when i brought this up....

Answers:

i say do whatever feels natural to both of you and dont be afraid to tell the other person if your uncomfortable. no need to be nervous. just start making out and caress eachother and move your hands on down and start fingering her. and then she'll probably give you a handy so whatever man. dont be nervous at all and bring protection for sex but dont plan on it. planning on sex is dumb at this age. go for gold!!!



I was 15 when I lost my virginity and got my first everything, I had a similar scenerio. It was me and my girlfirneds aniversary and we wanted to go further, however we planned on having sex. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing it is perfectly natural. If it's right to you both then who cares what anyone thinks. Just make sure you two are prepared bring condoms (even if you don't use them) you never know what could happen the moment could seem right and you both might want to.



just do whatever, 16 is legal for sex, so up to you

but if you do do it, wear a condom mate.

but do anything you wan, your old enough know, lifes to short to wait, why wait, what will you get out of waiting?

but be safe!



Curiosity is quite nerve-wracking, but you'll know it when you're there. Be patient and be careful. Use precautions or you both might regret it later. Good luck.

Great things are worth waiting for.



BLUMPKIN



Well, if you two really like eachother.. do it. But I should warn you.. it's hard not too once you've done it :P



First of all, YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD and you've only been together with your girlfriend for 1 month. I think you are way too young, don't rush into having oral sex and doing other things, because one thing can lead to another and before you know it, you'll be having sex (not that it is going to happen Thursday). And a side note, it is a good idea to wait at least six months before doing anything physical, you've only been together one month, you are still getting to know her, and what your relationship is going to be. Really take the time to get to know her, in the end you will be glad you did and sex will mean so much more to you both. Rushing can destroy your relationship.
Think about it, what if she got pregnant? What would you do if that happened? If you and your girlfriend had sex, would she go on the pill? Would you use condoms too? These are things that have to be discussed BEFORE you are home alone and thinking about having sex.
I was 18 when I lost my virginity and/or did anything of the sort, I waited till after I was in a committed relationship outside of high school and we had been together for over a year. I am glad I waited till I was ready and had been with someone that I know, trust and know that he'll always be there to snuggle afterwards and not leave once he's done. Intimacy is not to be taken lightly,
If you were ready you wouldn't be as nervous, and not on yahoo answers asking what you should do.
Please take this to heart and wait. Go out for a nice dinner and movie, or something different like mini golfing. I don't know whatever you would like, but please take the time to listen to someone who's been through what you're going through.




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