Masturbating problems?!
Question: Masturbating problems?
I have a wonderful girlfriend that I love!
We have been going out for a good substantial amount of time and I've fallen madly in love with her. I've never felt this way about any girl before.
anyway
We have both decided not to have sex until we are ready for all the consequences that come with sex (babies, STDs and such). My girlfriend is against all forms of Porn and masturbation.
(me: eh I don't really have a problem with either but masturbation does go against my religion)
I quit masturbating because I had met this amazing girl.
Lately I've been really HORNYYYYY
and I talked to her about how I've abstained for a VERY LONG TIME. I mean I don't think she knows how horny teenage guys get compared to teenage girls. I mean I have pretty good patience and I can hold off my urges for a very long time(I do pretty damn good for a teenage boy) but damn...lately I've been horny...
anyway
I talked things over with her and now she understands just a little more of my problem
so I masturbated the other day without porn and it was GREAT.
I didn't tell her that I did though.
but
I noticed something when I masturbated. It didn't really have the same wonderful pleasure it did before. I mean I still orgasm but I used to watch porn and masturbate. I don't know, it gave me something to watch while doing it. I don't really have a good imagination so it's hard for me to get turned on by just myself masturbating.
I don't know what to do. I want to masturbate but I want maybe something to look at or something that can turn me on? I've tried looking at pics (she is clothed) of my girlfriend and masturbating and that was eh-alright. I don't know. I would even just enjoy masturbating to a picture of her in her bathing suit or something like that. but I can't like ask her oh hey do you mind If you take a pic of yourself in bathing suit?
my question is
what can I masturbate to that will get me sexually turned on?
I would like to masturbate to porn but my conscious is telling me no because I wouldn't want my girlfriend masturbating to pics of other men.
I don't know I've been so sexually confused
I need help
I'm flippin out
:(
Answers:
lol
use your imagination or just do it when you're at home alone and excited
experience
your imagination is the key if you know what i mean, not to sound like a weirdo in anyway haah sorry if that was a weird answer
comon guy stop lying if your girl was really hot, im sure your mastebaiting every day after schoo...btw id dump her if she didnt like me masterbaiting, its natural to all men
I don't understand why masturbation make you stupid like this. You can go see one psychiatrist at clinic.
how about,
sexual interaction that's not intercourse?
masturbate in front of a mirror.