Why does it take me too long to ejaculate?!
Question: Why does it take me too long to ejaculate?
And now after all that misery when i have taken the decision and started masturbating full on, i find it takes me quite a long time to ***. It remains hard for like 40-45 min before i explode.
I heard some people can make themselves *** in less then 5 mins. I tried my best but even 20 mins is far from realizable for me. What problem am i facing here?
Please be honest. and don't laugh at me.
Answers:
Takes me from 5 to 1 hour time.. Depends how aroused.. And its a good thing if takes you long time.. Lol :)
Aged 15
I can't believe some of the answers here.
It doesn't matter if you just started masturbating when you were 12 or when you were 112, you ejaculate when you are ready.
Maybe you take antidepressants or maybe you drink some or maybe you have a medical reason that you just take a real long time to climax.
Go ask a real doctor if you want a real answer.
What you have said leads me to believe you are relatively normal for the most part. Most men have just the opposite problem. They reach climax and ejaculate too fast. It may be that you are focusing too much on being able to ejaculate and this is causing some anxiety. It can also be a medical problem. I suggest you consult a urologist.
Okay well i'm a girl but i guess ill try to answer this question.... you don't just rub yer cock you have to feel like yer really into it go hard and fast when yer watching porn. (Don't ask how i know this either)
Wow that is brave, wouldnt come here and do that as there so many insulting *********s on this site even if it does take that long its probably just rusty valves ie take time give it time
Not sure of problems but if that worried see professional DONT LEAVE IT
It sounds like you might be gay if you don't get horny from looking at a p*ssy. Try jacking off to some gay porn and I'm sure that you will j!zz in under a minute.
takes me 3 mins max im 18
if ur circumsized thats y
Since you're coming late into the game, it's going to be alot harder because you're influenced by alot of things. Most start when they hit puberty and they start sneaking peaks at Dad's magazines. You just started. Don't think you can become pro in 6 months. It takes practice. Try lubing it up (not lotion), it gets warmer when you go faster and it feels better. Or so I heard (I'm a woman). But you know what's best for him. Just experience, and in time you'll figure out the best and fastest way. Okay, my husband is into watching girls taking it up the rear.....and that's he best way for him by himself. But if I'm there....of course he'll get it in. But just find what turns you on the most and concentrate on that one thing.
Why would anyone laugh? All men have thought this at some time or another, it's normal :)
But 45 minutes? Ouch, that's loong.
Try watching The Joy Of Teen Sex on 4OD (it's online), although Channel 4 is an English channel so you might not be able to get it in the US or wherever you are.
You could try more foreplay so that once it gets down to the sex, you only have to spend a few minutes. Also try and arouse yourself a LOT more than you normally do.
And what religion stops you from masturbating? Bit strict :L