I need a guy's point of view?!
Question: I need a guy's point of view?
?I catch him staring at me and when he see's me. He either looks away quickly or mouths f*ck you
?He is really mean to me when his friends or boys are around
?But really nice when his friends or boys aren't around
?He asked me to slow dance once
?He has liked me in 3rd grade (I'm in middle now)
?He looks kind of shy when we're alone and doesn't say any thing or does annoying stuff
Example: My desk is right next to the class computers and he always (most of the time) sits at the comp. next to my desk, and does annoying things like tap computer and make it beep.
*But he is nice to other girls wether his friends are around not.
Why?
Answers:
He MOST LIKELY likes you. He acts this way because he might feel embarassed or nervous.
I would say he hates you and finds it fun to annoy you, maybe you should try being more nice to him. And my guess you turned him down when he asked you to slow dance, bad choice.
He either hates you or he's gay.
The guy like's you, or at least he's intimidated by you. That much is obvious by his mannerisms when you two are alone, or at least not around his friends.
His actions around his friends and by himself is also fairly easily explained.
The boy is insecure with himself, or rather, the boy takes into consideration how he thinks all of his friend's are going to react when he's around them. Most people who are constantly striving for affirmation from the people around them or who have low self-esteem, will constantly act in a manner that they think will elevate other people's views of them.
The boy doesn't sound like a total jerk, after all you're a middle schooler and people are still expected to be at least a little immature at that age.
There's not much you can do about the guy, he'll have to change on his own.
It sounds like he's trying to get your attention but at the same time he doesn't want other people to know that he's interested so he plays it off the only way most boys know how, and that's by being obnoxious. Either way, nothing you can do now, with any luck he'll grow out of it. If he doesn't then he's not the kind of guy you want to be with anyways.