guys opinion please, 4 years this has been going on...?!


Question: Guys opinion please, 4 years this has been going on...?
ok this guy and i have been friends for almost 4 years. he invites me for meals out once a week, calls a lot, texts and used to be really nervous around me (he's very shy) he grabs my thigh when trying to get up sometimes and i catch him looking at me a lot but he's bi. i have a huge issue with this and i dont know if he feels for me as more than a friend. now my problem is i'm told i intimidate guys like crazy, i'm very quiet and reserved looking so never ever show my feelings. if anything i do the opposite and pretend i'm not interested (although i asked him out a couple times)
should i leave it and continue as friends as there is too much risk??

Answers:

He is Bi, not gay. Since i have never been bi/gay or anything i have to see it from my standpoint. When my wife and I first started hanging out it was a hint a thon for a long time and was very frustrating. Sometimes u have to put yourself out there, turns out she was just as into me as i was her. So I believe it is worht the risk of at least making a play. So back to the Bi part he isnt all for guys so it definetly puts you on the playing field ;)



Hi ..

Its quite natural that boys looks girl body parts..dont think about that first.. if he always trying to impress you that means he might wants you..or he might want sex with just find out that..if you can..he might not ask you directly as he feel shy as you said..try to figure it out.. if he wants only friend ship think you dont have any problem right..if he want some thing else..be straight....


Have a great day...



so what....................



if you like risking hiv/aids then go for it



Four men in six are more or less bi.
Hunny, you'll have to live with that or reduce your choice of men to the two who are mainly hetero, or the bi who hates himself and becomes dangerous after having sex with another male and goes back to you contrite, but knowing he'll do it again. He may end up in jail for violence like assault or even murder.
Here's the lowdown:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scal…

Scientific surveys by Masters and Johnson, Shere Hite, the Kinsey Institute, and an informal one by a NY Chief of Police in the 1950s.




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