Need help with gf and penis not errecting properly. (read more below please)?!
Question: Need help with gf and penis not errecting properly. (read more below please)?
the second time was in the park, and it didnt get errected and she had her hold hand down my boxers, and it took like 30 mins for it to get around semi erect, probably not even that :(. this is so embarracing.
if i watch porn i can get erected easily, but with her its so hard even if i think or dirty things. i been errected over her few times but when she touches it just dont work. and she wants me to come over to hers tomorrow, most likely to have sex, but i really dont know what to do now :(. please help
im not gay at all. and i love her alot and i find her attractive in my opinion
Answers:
If it is the first time it is just performance anxiety. You may think of your gf in terms of sweetness kindness etc but not accept that she can also be the sexy horny girl that she wants to be with you. Sex is not dirty or making her dirty, it is just one part of the relationship that is nice when it is wet, heavy breathing, hot, horny, erections, sucking etc etc.
Look in the mirror and tell yourself all the things that you want to do with her, or even ask if she is interested to watch porn for some ideas with you if that helps you along.
Go for it, get on that bicycle and ride it!
Maybe because you're in a public place. What I want to know is why is she giving you a hand job in the park and the movie theater? How about a little private time in the bedroom?
Shh it happens.
Try to relax! Dont think about it too much!