23 yr old male, low sex drive?!

Question: 23 yr old male, low sex drive?

My fiancee and I have been together a little over a year. Since mid-relationship I have known him to have a low sex drive and a hard time mantaining an erection. I found out the first time it was due to the fact he had been addicted to masterbation. He quit that 5 months ago when I quit smoking. And since quitting it got better, but not by much. We are a young couple and I know it's not normal to go almost two weeks without sex. I am the soul inisiator in the bedroom and even then things don't always happen. And when we finally do have sex, he has trouble maintaining an erection. I know for a fact he is not cheating on me. He has a poor diet and loves junk food, be he is still average build. He is always tired or wanting to sleep, but not depressed. He plays video games alot. He hates the taste of alcohol so he almost never drinks. He never smokes, and has never done drugs so he is pretty straight edge. It's really hard because He doesn't have health insurance so I can't just take him in. I'm starting to really have a hard time with this, and I grow increasingly more depressed about it. He doesn't understand why I get upset and cry about it. And doesn't know why he doesn't inisiate sex.

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There are clinics that go by income it's not that expensive, look into it. His diet isn't helping him much and honestly, 9 times out of 10 when the drive isn't there and the libido isn't either, it's because of medication or other drugs. Now he has pressure to perform so that gets into his head and the erection is harder to attain. Go to a clinic. It will help with his confidence as well as the physical ailment.

well this may sound weird but have him masterbate with his non-dominate hand it gives a different feel and you can keep a hard on longer also try viraga

i had same prob

thats a shame...... I feel bad for you. no offence i think you should go find a real man who takes care of his duties. Not play with his but buddy's all day on the play station.

maybe he just isn't physically attracted to you, find a better man!

That ain't normal. He needs to see a doctor for a vitamin prescription. Hope this helps. If not call me.lol

is he gay or anything?

Two weeks without sex at your age? My love, I know people over 50-60 y.o. having sex more than 5 times a week!

He has some hormonal deficiency, and most likely it is low 'free testosterone' levels.
Ask him to see a doc and get it checked out. He doesn't understand your worries because he doesn't desire sex.

It is same as you would not understand someone not being hungry when you always are...
This is good reading about libido http://www.healthy-relationship-dating.c…
But doctor is a must

It is good to eat healthy food but that is not a cause of it.
If you are sexually incompatible your relationship will suffer more and more.
You need to do something.
The most difficult scenario is a new b/f.

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