Erection problem when it comes to sexual intercourse.?!


Question: Erection problem when it comes to sexual intercourse.?
Hey first off im only 15 and me and my girlfriend have decided to have sexual intercourse with eachother for the first time. I know by law i shouldnt be having sex at 15 but i really don't care about the law or anybodys opinion on it because its mine and her personal decision and nobody elses so please dont come with the lectures i know:/.
I always use to masterbate and have never had a problem geting an erection it only usually pretty much takes a touch and its up, i dont have a problem getting erect when she does this for me either. Anyways yesterday we were at mine and id had erections that day while with her and even had one when we both had our clothes off, then i put the condom on, and it miserably just sunk down haha:L! it was rather embarassing but we laughed about it together because we are really close and understand eachother and agreed to try it again tmorow. Which was today, and we had the same problem again -_-! We are going to try in another week or so which is why im seeking advice, she has suggested that she would get the implant because we think the problem is maybe i get anxious while putting it on and my mind just freezes and i loose my erection then and cant get one for a good hour even if she sucks or does whatever to my penis. So do you think the implant would solve this or is it a different reasen? Im really getting mad because of this and its rather embarassing

Answers:

Take it easy mate, it's okay. I hate condoms - you're just getting ready to do the deed, and then you have to stop whatever you're doing to put one on.

Try getting her to put it on for you?



A few things can help, when you masturbate, practice with the condom, get used to it, make it part of the deal.
Also, when you get with her let her put it on for you, don't let it be an interruption but rather part of your sexual experience.



You need to not see this girl as your friend .. just as a nice thing to have sex with.

And always stop talking when you start with the sex

oh and don't masturbate at least 2 days before your going to do it



Everything will be ok when you are relaxed and are sure you are doing the right thing for you both.



Performance anxiety is the most common cause of losing or not getting an erection. It is the result of being in your head worrying about whether or not you will get hard or stay hard. Once you start to do that you get caught in a "fear of failure" cycle which keeps reinforcing itself. How to deal with this problem is explained in simple terms in a small inexpensive book on premature ejaculation.

There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is this inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully for more than 32 years.

It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just enter the doctor’s name in any search engine: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.




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