My boyfriend wants me to shave my pubes?!


Question: My boyfriend wants me to shave my pubes?
Ok so I'm 13 and my boyfriend want me to shave my pubes down there.:( and I have tried to do it before but ever time I do it it itches really bad and I have to use itch cream so I just don't shave. So tonight I was on the phone with him and he told me he wasn't goin to go down there till i did. Should I? Is it normal for girls to shave down there? Also I'm afraid of cutting myself. Is there anyway I could shave down there and not be itchy?? plz help!!

Answers:

hi im 14 and my girlfriend is the same age i never tell her to shave if she wants to she can im not forcing her and neither should your BF and trust me it does itch x( i shaved my pubes i was scratching every 3mins and i started to see raw skin around my "buddy"



13...wow, you're starting early - just off topic, maybe you should wait a little longer before becoming sexually active, I guarantee you will be happy you waited a little longer when you are older.

Now...don't shave down there!! Yes, it will grow back itchy, you will have to do it nearly every day to keep it from itching as it grows back quickly and much more thicker. You also run the rick of painful cuts and razor bumps - they are horrible and many women who shave down there get them because the area is so sensitive. If you want to get rid of your hair, I highly recommend waxing. The hair doesn't itch when it grows back after a couple of weeks and it slowly becomes thinner too. I wax mine all off, in fact I have learnt to do it myself so I don't have to pay ridiculous costs at a beautician. It's actually not that hard once you get the hang of it.



At 13?

At 13???? Your boyfriend is an idiot (sorry, but the truth hurts sometimes) for pressuring you to do something which is physically uncomfortable and which you don't seem to wanna do anyway.

Time for *you* to take control. Tell him you'll do what you like, you won't do what you don't like, and you'll do things when you're god-damn good and ready for it. Until then he can put up or shut up.



I think that the biggest thing that needs to happen is that you both need to realize that it's your body and he has no right to control it like that. If he can't respect you just the way you are, then you need to find someone that will. You shouldn't have to put yourself through something uncomfortable just because he likes it better that way. Be yourself and demand that he respect that.



yeah your waaay too young for your bf to want to have any type of sexual relations, but in a few years when u shood be, yes most all girls shave down there, keep it clean, but for now, dont have sex your too young, dont be the cool girl with all the guys who does that, because youll get a bad reputation, tease the hell out of guys, but dont do that



You're 13, sexual activity should be the least of your worries. It is perfectly fine to not shave your pubic hair, and it definitely not okay for your boyfriend to pressure you into doing so. Don't do anything you don't want to do, especially if it causes you pain.



Get yourself a real man when you're a bit older. Shaving makes you look like a little girl. Trim, never shave. Don't let any man control you like this, ever.



no don't do it besides your a bit young to start worrying about that if he care for you he will respect you if not move on you will have other boyfriends



13?!?!?! Don't have sex.



your a slut arnt you?




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