Is it normal a guy to think of getting married for you on your first date?!
Question: Is it normal a guy to think of getting married for you on your first date?
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This man is bad news. The first part, up through introducing you to his parents and planning a vacation, sounds like moving too fast and being desperate. The rest is classic controlling/abusive behavior. This is not normal behavior, rather a sign of social maladjustment. The man is not ready for a healthy relationship. You are well rid of him.
no clearly it was not it sounds like he has to be with some-one, does not matter who just some-one
i think you did the right thing, maybe he wanted you to sell your house coz it was money he was after
my head
Amber,
Sounds like a freak. Run fast in the opposite direction.
Trust your instincts. Most of the time they arre spot on.
No. At the beginning all he wants to is have S*X. Then after at least 5 years he may want to marry you.
It would be ok if it was just him liking you, but I think he's just a control freak if I'm honest
Of what caste is he? This makes a difference.
No, he is effed up, lose him quick!
From the get go, you should have realized that there was something askew with him. If a guy asks you, casually if you would change your surname if you married... it may be a question to determine how set in your ways you are. But by the time he introduced you to his family as GF and booked a holiday, you should have told him to take a step back and slow things down to "back to getting to know one another first" but in your case you were lucky and I hope after the second episode, you broke it off and are looking elsewhere.
Good luck to you my dear. This guy gives his gender a bad rap.