my boyfriend can't seem to orgasm with a condom?!
Question: My boyfriend can't seem to orgasm with a condom?
I believe him because I get the same sensation. we tried once for just a tiny bit to see what it felt like without one and without a condom on I feel him alot better, but once the condom was back on I had a harder time feeling him moving as well.
we always have to stop and do a bj or hj for him to finish.
I'm just looking for some advice on how to make it feel better for both of us with the condom on as we are both still newbs at this.
thanks
Answers:
First off, Lets forget about the multitude of reasons you should not attempt to use coitus interruptus rather than using a condom. Lets just say not a good long term practice. To make using a condom more pleasurable I have found that this often depends on the type of condom you use. You want to look for one that has lubrication in the tip of the condom as well as one that fits loosely on the head of his penis. This will allow it to move around and stimulate both you and him better than a tight fitting one that will make everything seem more numb. You might want to add additional lube (water based) inside the tip and also inside of you to help as well.
Don't give up on using condoms for both of your sakes.
well most men when new to condoms don't feel much happy abt their performance and some of them lose it on very first account and some never reach orgasm . that rubber thing on Johnson doesn't charm everybody. sensations of real sex without them is much better . so don't worry it happens usually and takes time to become habitual . you would both do a lot better with them just in few days with practice .so don freak out and keep your cool . best of luck .
is this what he's telling you, or have you actually witnessed -or NOT witnessed, rather- this for yourself?
no guy wants to put on a rubber. i mean, that's like taking a shower with a raincoat on. but it's for the best. tell him to suck it up, or find a new partner.
just keep going. it'll happen eventually..hopefully...
maybe roleplaying would help?? You could be hillary ;)
Squirt a little lube in the condom before he puts it on. It will help with the feeling.
a lot is two words God know grammar.
but get him really ready before he enters you.