Why can't I stay erect?!


Question: Why can't I stay erect?
First off, I'm 16. & Have had NO PROBLEM at all getting it up in the past with other girls or while I masturbate. (Don't gimme that whole your too young too be having sex your only 16 speech). But yesterday, I was with my current girlfriend and yea we started doing it. It was our first time having sex with each other, but we've both had other partners in the past. Anyways, I was hard through the whole foreplay thing and through oral but right when I started to penetrate her, i got soft. I don't get it. Why did that happen? Nothing like that had ever happened before I was pretty speechless because I couldn't get back erect! I was in shock! Lol. And then today, I didn't wake up with "morning wood" and I usually do. And also, (After this happened I started getting worried) I tried masturbating and the same thing happened I got erect for a bit but after a couple minutes it started getting soft. I am pretty positive I do not have erectile disfunction because I masturbated 2 days before the "incident" and nothing like that happened & I'm only 16. Any suggestions on how to get it up or on why this may have happened?? Does anybody know anything about the product MACA? Let me know. It was so embarrassing nothing like that has ever ever happened to me & I'm scared if we try again, it might happen again

Answers:

If you do foreplay for too long, like hours of prolonged getting turned on prior to having penetration, your body can go into a state of frustration which kind of looks to it like losing interest and giving up.

If you spend a day at the beach full of beauties, and getting inwardly excited with up and down semi erections all day, chances are that by evening, you shouldn't even bother trying to Make Love.
Another contributor toward this is that when you produce testosterone overload, your pineal gland senses this. It sends a chemical signal to your pituitary gland which releases an enzyme into your blood stream which causes surplus free blood testosterone to be converted into estrogen. Your body will only allow a certain level of free blood testosterone before it takes measures to reduce it.

Estrogen shuts your testicles down to lower testosterone production and gives a real bump or dip in your sexual ability. It takes a couple of days for you body to balance out again and get passed the slump. Morning wood could even be gone for a day or two.

If you turn around now and lose confidence which a guy would be inclined to do, that too hinders testosterone production and it all comes together and makes for a really bad time and bad feelings.
Some Dudes get kind of stuck there and go through hell. We produce lots of testosterone when we feel good and we feel like we are winning.

Your 16 and probably don't fully understand the dynamics of your sexuality. Just leave sex alone for a couple of days to let things..testosterone... balance out. The urge will get really strong again as you balance and that's when to start over again, like fresh. Wait for that experience before going into another adventure.

In the future, do sex in a way that's going to flow smoothly from beginning to the actual Making Love. Don't do prolonged ups and downs or really long foreplay to where you come up over a long time and then go down again between time. That will disrupt you. Edging is different because you keep building higher instead of reaching a point and then letting things fizzle.

Don't worry Dude, your going to be all good again. You just need to leave things alone, understand what I've told you here, and wait until you start feeling strong urges again. Next time, go with it and let it flow within a reasonable time span. You can always go for a seconds instead of dragging preliminaries out way too long. That's going to work great. Reasonable foreplay is good for your Lady, but there is a point that gets crossed which isn't good for you, so it's not going to be good for her either.

Don't be scared or embarrassed. Your good! What happened to you is normal. It could happen again some day in the future under similar circumstances, but so what!!!!
At least you know why it happens and how to avoid it. Girls don't understand this so you need to take charge as not dragging things out and not starting until it's going to carry through.

I usually support married sex, but I'm helping you out here anyway because you seem really set back by this.

It's going to be all good again.

Me! :- )



As we get older, our bodies break down, and part of the breaking down includes not being able to stay erect as long. As guys get older, they are less likely to get erect in the first place. It's disappointing, but normal.



somebody is putting saltpeter in your food



Your pretty messed up kid.
Go see a doctor, then a psychologist.




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