why does this happen to me?!


Question: Why does this happen to me?
it seems like to me that every time i masturbate and *** and stuff....if i do it naked....i cant stay naked after i've came. i find myself putting some sort of clothing back on after only 2 mins or less. even when im not in a rush for anything....i could be there laying in bed naked doing my business and at the end once i "finish up" i still dont stay naked....even tho i've started sleeping naked (just done it a couple of times....seeing if i could get used to it). so why am i like this? why does my brain always wanna put my clothes back on after my "business" is done? is this normal?

Answers:

What if you find when you do that, try taking off your clothes again after, say 10 mins. You've already masturbated, so it's not like you're doing Round Two (or Ten).. unless you choose to. But as someone else pointed out, it's overcoming the powerful conditioning which equates being nude with sex and sin.



You have it in your mind that naked=sex for some reason and it don't, probably because that is the way a lot of people think, You need to change your way of thinking, there is nothing wrong with nude, I never get dressed till I have to go out of the house and I also sleep naked because you get more rest that way.



Most people are conditioned to keep clothes on, either for protection, warmth, or modesty. It's normal.

If it bothers you, pump up the heat and keep your clothes off. The only way to become comfortable doing something is to do it.



Yes you are conditioned to put your clothes back on after sex. If you want to change you will need to recondition yourself. Put yourself in a situation where you cannot quickly re-dress. Maybe put you clothes away and convince yourself to not go back to them.



Normal isn't a word that works in behavior. Its not like one way or the other is always wrong.

BUT it sounds like you have a little guilt about it, so you tend to "cover up" right after. That's common, even though there's nothing to be guilty about.

Don't worry, you're fine.



yes its normal its all about the mood after you "finish" you arent in the mood much so you just want to do something else :P or go to sleep W/E

im 13 i do teh same bah



Dont worry about it i am 18 years old and i still happens sto me it is just something that you will have to fight to not put your clothes on




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