Lust & Masturbation???????!


Question: Lust & Masturbation???????
I am man that has this problem with masturbation,now i know there is nothing wrong with masturbating but my problem is that i feel guilty after i do it and it seems like i want to make myself wait least a month but i just cannot do it and the longest i have lasted without doing it is about 2 weeks but i want to try and make it a month at least and that's why i feel so guilty about masturbating because it seems like i trick myself into doing it if i even see a good looking woman online or in a movie then i get excited and want to masturbate so my question is,is it just lack of sex or just lust and it has been quiet while since I've had sexual intercourse.can any suggestions or advice?

Answers:

Lust is wanting the flesh so badly that you don't care. If you are feeling guilty, you are lusting. As far as masturbation in general, it is okay. If you don't do it yourself, your body will do it for you in a wet-dream.



Ask yourself one question; "what is there to feel guilty about?"
You have hurt no one, you have enjoyed your penis, that's all. And that's what it is there for, not just to pee.
It should be used for sex, that is the intent of it, be it with a girl, a guy or by yourself.
We only go around once, start to enjoy, you are putting your penis to a good and proper use, there is nothing to feel guilty about.

never felt guilty



the guilt feelings depend on the way you were raised when you were a little child.
and about the lack of sex and the lust >> this might be easy at the first few days then it goes more and more difficult as days go on "because of the hormone level in your body", but later if you trained your self enough it will be much easier to abstain masturbation..

GP



i thought i was the only one that feels guilty after doing it,. well then i guess its normal. i feel less guilty or even happy when someone else is helping me or so, cuz then right after that both of you cuddle and sleep together but doing it alone gets you feeling guilty or even sad. i do wait weeks to months also. it is not a lack of lust, its self control and i think that may be a good thing, but dont kill yourself. lol play wen you feel aroused but dont do it if youre bored or so.



Just try not ot feel guilty, it's not a bad thing to do, just do and and stop punishing yourself, you don't need to know if it's lust or lack of sex, it's just something you want to do and there's no reason why you shouldn't do it.



Masturbate a bit is not too bad, do it more usual okay!



everyone has that after they masturbate dont worry




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