Men, vagina opinions please.?!
Question: Men, vagina opinions please.?
Second, sorry this is so long so if you read it all, I appreciate it!
I've searched the internet far and wide for what I'm looking for and I can't. I have some major issues with my nether regions. Yes, yes, I know that lots of women do and I have also been told numerous times that men don't care as long a they are getting some--but I just don't buy it.
I'm a big girl. I know not all of you like big girls, that's fine, if you want to give your opinion anyway, I'd like it. I have a very large mons pubis. I've read on many medical websites that it's genetic but I know that a lot of it has to do with me being overweight. But this part of me bothers me so much I can't stand it. And to add insult to injury I don't have a labia minora AND my labia majora is large. I'm 23, successful, mature, and confident in so many ways, but this is just one are of my life that I turn into a self conscious 13 year old and I can't shake it. I've been intimate with a few guys and not one has said anything but I'm still self conscious. I feel so deformed and completely unattractive because of it. So, is any of this a big deal to you guys or not? What is your opinion? I really hate it because I am so confident and secure with my body but just not with this. And I'm very sexual but hold back a lot because of it. And to add some more insult to the already present insulted injury, I can't shave as much down there as I'd like because I have the most awful sensitive skin ever. I've tried every technique, razor, and gel there is but I absolutely break out horribly and I feel like it's more unattractive then just leaving it be. I trim it up and keep it as tidy as possible. I don't have much pubic hair anyway and it's not everywhere like chubaca or something. I just need some...I don't know, something. Honesty, answers, opinions, something. I dated a guy earlier this year, which didn't last long and we were never intimate, but I was concerned about dating because of it. Now I'm talking to another guy and this fear is here again--and he's someone I can see something with long term. Ok, I'm done. Thanks guys so much! I appreciate it. Women, if you want to add me something too, go for it. Have a great night.
Answers:
The honest opinion is that you should really stay confident.
Penises and vaginae are all different.
As a woman might won't like certain type of penis shape; the same may happen with man he has a preference for other type of vagina. But this happens very seldom. It may well be that a man will actually love your vagina because of his preferences.
If a man leaves you it will be very unlikely because of that. Personality, sexuality and atraction are of much higher importance.
So ease down, girl and enjoy your life. No need to worry at all.
BTW I've read about liabias an interesting article you might check on it http://www.healthy-relationship-dating.com/labiaplasty-before-after.html
My b/f says it is quite impossible to dislike vagina.
If it helps.
Sexylabia.com is a site dedicated to just that subject. Men find them all beautiful and so should you.
Well, it's kinda hard to know if it's scary without seeing it and I don't really want to see it - no offense, I'm sure you don't want to see mine either, but it doesn't sound particularly odd or weird or ugly...it just sounds ordinary.
I think the outta two should be larger and the inner smaller, mine looks like that, way TMI I know, lol, and about the mons - well that's the pillow he can sleep on, it's suppose to be well padded and squashy, not like a hunch back or something, but enough that you can feel the delightfully named "fat pad" in there, lol.
Just go with it girl, we're all different and we're all normal. My husband says mine is pretty, but it just looks like a whatsit to me, I think he just loves me - and that works out just fine.
I think it's very strange that paedophilia has such stigma in society yet men and women demand that other women shave off all their pubic hair, arms, legs, armpits, vagina etc otherwise they are unattractive. Also as for your labia many women are circumcised and have the labia removed so you should think yourself lucky, if a guy doesn't like labia it's kind of like a woman not liking foreskin.
No I'm positive you are pretty I don't like girls who look like twigs. As for the pubic hair problem use a electric shaver after you trim it NO GEL it works without it or wax it it might hurt but it stays gone for a while or you could have it laser'd off that way it never comes back ever I hope I helped
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