Why can't I get hard when I need too?!
Question: Why can't I get hard when I need too?
We've gotten intimate twice now and I found a way to push it asidee. Im worried that it will happen again.
Can anyone help?
P.S And its not like im not into her, I know that's not the issue!
Answers:
Sounds like you're stressing. The answer is simply to relax and let nature take it's course. No, foreplay shouldn't be the problem unless it continues for an unusually long time. Foreplay should excite you more. Just relax and don't stress over this.
Well, you could just have stopped puberty, and having a hard time. Excuse the pun. But yeah, try viagra?
Performance anxiety is the most common cause of losing or not getting an erection. It is the result of being in your head worrying about whether or not you will get hard or stay hard. Once you start to do that you get caught in a "fear of failure" cycle which keeps reinforcing itself. How to deal with this problem is explained in simple terms in a small inexpensive book on premature ejaculation.
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