Men, vagina opinions please.?!
Question: Men, vagina opinions please.?
First off, I want honesty. Complete and total honesty. And I know the technical term for the outter part is vulva, not vagina, but most people refer to it as a vagina anyway..so.
Second, sorry this is so long so if you read it all, I appreciate it!
I've searched the internet far and wide for what I'm looking for and I can't. I have some major issues with my nether regions. Yes, yes, I know that lots of women do and I have also been told numerous times that men don't care as long a they are getting some--but I just don't buy it.
I'm a big girl. I know not all of you like big girls, that's fine, if you want to give your opinion anyway, I'd like it. I have a very large mons pubis. I've read on many medical websites that it's genetic but I know that a lot of it has to do with me being overweight. But this part of me bothers me so much I can't stand it. And to add insult to injury I don't have a labia minora AND my labia majora is large. I'm 23, successful, mature, and confident in so many ways, but this is just one are of my life that I turn into a self conscious 13 year old and I can't shake it. I've been intimate with a few guys and not one has said anything but I'm still self conscious. I feel so deformed and completely unattractive because of it. So, is any of this a big deal to you guys or not? What is your opinion? I really hate it because I am so confident and secure with my body but just not with this. And I'm very sexual but hold back a lot because of it. And to add some more insult to the already present insulted injury, I can't shave as much down there as I'd like because I have the most awful sensitive skin ever. I've tried every technique, razor, and gel there is but I absolutely break out horribly and I feel like it's more unattractive then just leaving it be. I trim it up and keep it as tidy as possible. I don't have much pubic hair anyway and it's not everywhere like chubaca or something. I just need some...I don't know, something. Honesty, answers, opinions, something. I dated a guy earlier this year, which didn't last long and we were never intimate, but I was concerned about dating because of it. Now I'm talking to another guy and this fear is here again--and he's someone I can see something with long term. Ok, I'm done. Thanks guys so much! I appreciate it. Women, if you want to add me something too, go for it. Have a great night.
Second, sorry this is so long so if you read it all, I appreciate it!
I've searched the internet far and wide for what I'm looking for and I can't. I have some major issues with my nether regions. Yes, yes, I know that lots of women do and I have also been told numerous times that men don't care as long a they are getting some--but I just don't buy it.
I'm a big girl. I know not all of you like big girls, that's fine, if you want to give your opinion anyway, I'd like it. I have a very large mons pubis. I've read on many medical websites that it's genetic but I know that a lot of it has to do with me being overweight. But this part of me bothers me so much I can't stand it. And to add insult to injury I don't have a labia minora AND my labia majora is large. I'm 23, successful, mature, and confident in so many ways, but this is just one are of my life that I turn into a self conscious 13 year old and I can't shake it. I've been intimate with a few guys and not one has said anything but I'm still self conscious. I feel so deformed and completely unattractive because of it. So, is any of this a big deal to you guys or not? What is your opinion? I really hate it because I am so confident and secure with my body but just not with this. And I'm very sexual but hold back a lot because of it. And to add some more insult to the already present insulted injury, I can't shave as much down there as I'd like because I have the most awful sensitive skin ever. I've tried every technique, razor, and gel there is but I absolutely break out horribly and I feel like it's more unattractive then just leaving it be. I trim it up and keep it as tidy as possible. I don't have much pubic hair anyway and it's not everywhere like chubaca or something. I just need some...I don't know, something. Honesty, answers, opinions, something. I dated a guy earlier this year, which didn't last long and we were never intimate, but I was concerned about dating because of it. Now I'm talking to another guy and this fear is here again--and he's someone I can see something with long term. Ok, I'm done. Thanks guys so much! I appreciate it. Women, if you want to add me something too, go for it. Have a great night.
Answers:
I'd have to see it to know exactly what it is you are afraid of but I wouldn't worry too much about the whole thing... if you want to talk to your man when you become intimate about the whole thing... then go for it, but dont go into detail... just ask him if he thinks it's weird of something... dont go too far into freaking out and sharing too much info... you could just put thoughts in his head that never would have been there otherwise.
Wow ring me quick !