Does this happen to you? If not, then how long?!


Question: Does this happen to you? If not, then how long?
I just started dating this guy and everything is going great. Yesterday was the first time we did anything sexual. When I gave him a handjob it only took him about five minutes to climax. I don't mind since it wasn't actual sex, but it just really surprised me because my last boyfriend took up to an hour to climax with oral sex and he would have to use his hand some too. I know all men are different, but I didn't realize they were that different. So how long does it take you with hand jobs and oral sex? And do you think this means he will finish quickly during intercourse as well?

Answers:

Every guy is different, but really, most young guys (teens and 20s) usually cumm pretty quickly (at least the first time). I've found that giving him a blowwjob or hand job first (to get that first urgent orgasm out of the way) before sex is a good way to make him last longer DURINIG sex. The one good thing about most young guys is that they require little if any time to "recover" after they cumm. During sex, my bf doesn't even lose his erection after he cumms as long as we keep going (which is great).
Also, remember, if that was your first time with him, he was probably a little EXTRA excited, plus, who knows how long it had been since another girl had given him a hand job.
So he came in 5 minutes, is that such a bad thing if you're doing a hand job or a blowwjob? Do you really want to do that for an hour? I mean, I love giving my bf oral sex, but NOT for an HOUR.
I'm sure he'll settle down and last a bit longer as the two of you get more into sex.

experience



Maybe he wanted to impress you and waited?



You say this is the first sexual contact , so he would be very excited and that can lead to fairly quick orgasm . The previous guy maybe was more experienced and was able to hold back , he may also have been used to just masturbation and needed some self help to reach climax
I am gay and my early encounters usually finished quite quickly , but once I found my first real boyfriend we were able to experiment and also got to know what turned each other on . So as you say all guys can be different , but most can learn from experience and last longer . Even if they do climax quickly they can go for another one anyway



He is normal, your ex was not




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