How is he hiding the chewing tobacco?!


Question: How is he hiding the chewing tobacco?
My fiance has said dozens of times throughout the years that he has quit tobacco. But he was lying about it every time, though I think he had every intention of quiting. We were broke up for a time and a different guy I dated didn't smell like tobacco, it was nice. But now that I have got back together with my fiance, I smell it on him. And it was unbearably strong yesterday. But he claims he hasn't dipped for a year and to pester him to much would make him mad. But I know that's what I smelled!
So I want to find the evidence, but I have looked in his jacket and pants pockets. I don't think he has it hidden somewhere in my apartment. When he is here we are usually together.
But that night he went to a friends house for a few hours and came back smelly.
Could he dip at his house and it linger on his breath for several days?
I know the stench well and am sure that's what it is. But how can I tell him I don't want to kiss him because I smell it? He will get mad, the way he used to, and swear up and down he doesn't do it. He will never admit it, believe me.

Answers:

If he is blatantly lying to your face, and you are too scared to be open and honest with him, then why on earth are you with this man. Honestly, open your eyes sweet heart, he is lying to you. If there is no open communication on either side, then what's the point of persuing a relationship with this person. Whether it is a big lie or a small lie, it is still a lie.



Lot more to this than whether he dips or not. Sounds like you don't trust the guy, and that he also has anger issues or you know he openly lies to you. So why is he your fiance? Doesn't sound like you and him are in that great of a relationship to commit to marriage. Successful marriages are built on mutual trust and also successful partners don't fight or argue all the time. Perhaps you should think about whether his potential dipping is really the issue.




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