porn addiction questions!?!


Question: Porn addiction questions!?
Is it possible for a man to be addicted to porn or have a sex addiction, but not masterbate to it? I believe my husband has a porn addiction and we are going to try to move past it ourselves before seeking counseling. He only acts this way when he has been drinking and everyone else in the house is asleep. (1-2 days a week) He claims it is mostly out of boredom. Our sex life isnt bad as far as I can see. On average we have relations every other day if not more. He "claims" he doesn't masterbate to the pornography. Is this even possible?

Also - Is it healthy when trying to recover from porn addiction to be making your own porn? He wants to video tape us and says it would be better to watch us than a regular porn, its just different. He says the people in porn are just doing it as a job, they rarely enjoy it. But, ours is made with love. Is this a good idea or will it make his problem worse?

Answers:

I think he definitly is addicted. When I watch porn myself, guess what happens afterwards. I go to the bathroom and masturbate. It's impossible for him to resist himself after watching porn, he'll definitly masturbate after it.

Masturbating of course is normal... everyone has needs and pretty much everyone does it. But what he does isn't normal anymore. He's exchanging porn and pictures which definitly isn't good. I'd have a good talk with him honestly.

Watching weard porn is just bad. Women getting pooped on? That reminds me of 2girls1cup.
Gross as heck, NO WAY I would masturbate to that and I can agree with you there! xD

So my final conclusion is:

Have a good talk with him about it! :D Just tell him you want to get this figured out, go sit around the table and talk about it till the problems solved.

Experience.



I think that it is a good idea. I think that he is just embarrassed to tell you that he his watching those movies to learn how to be a better lover. He probably wants to tape the two of you so that you can both see what works best for you and improve as needed. This is what my wife and I do.



I am having a trouble finding the problem here. It doesn't appear that you are dissatisfied or that he is hurting anyone else. Sure, some of this stuff sounds weird but if it is not illegal what's the deal?



You are one kinky chick if you poop on your husband.

This line from your question: I couldnt imagine masturbating to a porn of women being "pooped" on. Just saying. lol. Besides its not like he doesnt get it at home



If you believe he is not masturbating to porn, you are being very naive. That doesn't mean it's an addiction though. We all do it, it's part of our lifestyle...



Sounds to me like he's a little overly obsessed with porn. Might become an obsessive compulsion if it hasn't already.



Lol, you spelled masturbate wrong twice.

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