Do i have to have an orgasm by masturbating ? PLEASE HELP ME?!


Question: Do i have to have an orgasm by masturbating ? PLEASE HELP ME?
Ok so im turning 13 in july, haters just leave i really need a serious answer. Ok so i masturbate idk 1 or 2 times a day and i get to the point where im going to have an orgasm but i stop. I dont want to have an orgasm i know apperently it feels great, but i dont wanna get past that point. PLEASE HELP i want to get past my first orgasm so ill know what it was like , but that part kind of scares me and i feel like it going to hrut me, cause one time i kept trying and it just gets harder to keep going. Does masturbating the only way to have an orgasm, or will i just get one when my body thinks i should have an orgasm? And also, do i HAVE to have an orgasm in my life to do other things? Thank you and please respond nicely

Answers:

You aren't young to be thinking about these things, and age 12 or 13 is usually when it happens. Your healthy and normal.

It's hard on your body to have repeated stimulation and not carry through to an orgasm as toying it along just increases your desire to be satisfied. You can cause frustrated feelings and anxiety as well as testicle congestion which and feel sore and uncomfortable.

You seem to have a fear of reaching an orgasm, like reaching an orgasm is a great evil while stimulating yourself isn't. Its all equal. You are better off to carry through to orgasm, or else don't stimulate your equipment. An orgasm results from keeping doing what feels good and letting it feel better and better until an orgasm happens. When it starts to feel better and better, can be sacry because you start to wonder how far the feeling can climb. Don't worry about that! How high it climbs won't damage you. It's not going to reach a feel good explosion, after which it won't feel very good any more until you give it a rest. Then it's all recovered again. If how you do it doesn't feeling good, it's not going to take you to an orgasm.

People have orgasm through having sex as in Making Love. Marriage is the best and safest place for that level. See the attached link to a similar question.

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Well when your jacking off your brain and hand is excited and that's where you feel like it gets harder to do but keep going and it will do what u want it to do, and it feels good 2 it's about 15 seconds of pleasure. :p goodluck read about it on google or something btw Im 15

Experience



Actually, it seems really like you will have and orgasm but if you force yourself to keep going, you probably wont. And after getting past that climax multiple times, it wont feel as good as it did the first time.

Im13



I dont have an orgasm every time i masturbate. sometimes i just stop.

personal experience



I think somebody male can answer your question better but from what understanding I have of men's body you will come eventually if not today.



are you referring to "cumming"? if so my husband just said that cumming is the same thing as an orgasm and it doesnt hurt, it only feels good. If you havn't had white liquid come out ( omg this is soo wierd talking to you about but im going to try and get through this for your sake LOL ) than you havn't had an orgasm. Sorry i can't answer any more... Use ky lubricant and think happy thoughts.. youll get there bud. lol You can still have sex without having an orgasm and please another girl but you just won't get to feel the ultimate reward of having your orgasm.



All the orgasms you see on TV and stuff arent the same as real life, they make it seem more dramatic than it actually is!

The orgasm itself IS the ejaculation. You cant separate the two, but if you ejaculate all the time, then eventually your ejaculations wont feel like youre having an orgasm, as youre just worn out.

If it is scaring you or anything, then you arent ready for your first one. I would just carry on fooling around as you are and once you are ready, then have your first one. But you arent yet. Some people wait until theyre like 16 to do it for the first time.

Just dont worry about it. Gradually you will want to try it and eventually you will, but you arent going to hurt yourself if you do or dont and you dont have to. I have to admit, its weird talking to a 12 year old about these things.



You don't have to, but you will like it. It's the whole point of masturbating, having sex or getting oral/hand jobs. It won't hurt. Haven't you had a wet dream yet? If you have then it will be no different when it comes to the feeling of ejaculating. Maybe you exert too much energy when doing it, which explains why you say it gets harder. Try going slower. I don't understand the question about whether you have to have one to do other things in life. You can work, play etc and not have an orgasm.

An orgasm is essentially ejaculating.




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