I ejaculate too fast with this woman..HELP! its not normal. ?!
Question: I ejaculate too fast with this woman..HELP! its not normal. ?
ive tried masterbating before having sex with her, and i still *** fast. i even would *** once...then we would have sex again, and i would still *** fast on the second round.
i have also done kagal excersizes. but i just cant hold back with her.
would this pass eventually? is there anything i can do to make myself perform like normal? i heard of desensitizing...but i dont know how to or what to use.
im extremly desperate!!! this woman is really good, and i treat her extremly well. the only problem is the sex.
also, aprroximately 3 months ago i got injured at work and been a little depressed or stressed, and can not wait to get back.
please be respectful and honest. thank you in advance.
Answers:
Hi, It's been 18years to get her and now you have her. You have done well in describing the tip of the ice berg, but underlying is yet to be described. But never mind, cause your problem is caused by your depressive anxiety and stress, this is causing you these premature ejaculation, compounded by the fact that you are overwhelmed by this beau and the desire to perform and sweep her off her feet, so as to impress and satisfy her. What I recommend is this; Take your time and delay every approach on getting to the coitus part and fill it with touching and caressing, foreplay as long as you can, command and control your anxiety and importantly- breath!! breathing here is critical and exhale through the nose too. Ejaculation through out this exercise is not important it is just as it is, an exercise. Practice makes perfect.
Research has found that there may be a link between low nitric oxide levels and early ejaculation. Increased nitric oxide can also lead to fuller, firmer erections. There are several ways to increase nitric oxide, including foods (grape juice, green peas) and supplements (horny goat weed, l-arginine, etc.). I take Spartan Blend, but you should ask your doctor before you take anything.
that's a good thing. why do you care? are you nuts or something?
faster the better, the opposite is 10 times worse bro.
If you want to last longer start taking paxil or zoloft I forget wich one of those does that
this is stupid.
Mainly it is due to some anxiety and nervousness. Don't have any anxieties about your performance. Just go cool. If needed you can have some vitamins.
My boyfriend told me he sort of distracts himself during sex. He either focuses on something in the room.. or his "go to wandering thought" is animals in a field. hahaha Sounds dumb.. but it works for him.
Go slow and pinch the glans when you feel too aroused. Good steady pressure from on top of the penis and below at the head will lessen your arousal.
Every man is born with premature ejaculation, so having it is perfectly normal – to start with. Controlling ejaculation is something you have to learn just as you had to learn to control your bladder as a child. We get taught to control our bladders but no one teaches us how to control ejaculation.
Do not waste time or money on sprays, vitamins, herbs, dietary supplements or drugs. This is a learning problem and these things will not help you learn to control ejaculation any more than they can help you to learn to speak another language.
There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is an inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully for more than 32 years.
It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just enter the doctor’s name in any search engine: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.
http://sextherapy-prematureejaculation.c…