Why did he make up an excuse to give me a hug?!


Question: Why did he make up an excuse to give me a hug?
Why did he make up an excuse to give me a hug?
There's this guy who I'm friends with. Today he's like, "I'm really cold." Then I told him jokingly we could hug. Then he wrapped his arms around me and hugged me tightly for a while. Then he said he had to go, and I asked him if he was still cold. He turned around and grinned and said he wasn't cold, he just wanted an excuse to give me a hug.

Answers:

Because he wanted to hug you, but was unsure how you would respond to his desire. He likes you! If the hug wasn't a clear indication, the grin definitely was!



Maybe he has feelings for you. Don't freak out. If you're not gay, then just say politely, "I'm flattered that you would find me attractive, but I'm not gay". If you overreact and are rude and hurtful, it makes it seem like you have some inner turmoil about gay issues. If you're cool with knowing you're straight and don't have insecurities about your sexual orientation, then being considerate to the other person doesn't raise red flags that you might be gay yourself. Those that protest the loudest usually are trying to hide something.



Okay, this question is weird, "say what!?"




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