Sex question... Pease help? :)?!
Question: Sex question... Pease help? :)?
we did it twice, first with him on top. Then doggy style.
my question is, why did he not last long?
the first time it was about 4 minutes. And the second time it was like 7.
he told me that he usually doesnot come the second time around.
why could this be? ( he came the 2nd time around with me)
what can he do to last longer, and
how long do you last?
thanks!:)
Answers:
Young guys (teens and 20s) usually cumm pretty quickly. The good thing though is that they also require little or NO 'recovery' time, meaning they're usually ready to go again pretty soon after they cumm (my bf can usually just stay hard after he cumms as long as we keep going). We lived together for almost a year and I'm on the pill, so we don't use condoms, which means that we don't have to stop to put on a new condom every time he cumms, so he can just keep going, which is good. Sometimes he'll cumm as many times as I do (3 or 4 times). Guys can teach themselves to last longer by either stopping or slowing down when they feel like they are about to cumm and once the feeling passes, they can go again. One thing you can do to help him is to give him a blowwjob or handjob before sex so you can get him over that first URGENT cumm and then let him give YOU oral sex either until you cumm or until you're just about to cumm and THEN HAVE SEX. He will last longer and you will eiither have already cumm and be working your way to another orgasm or you'll probably cumm soon after he is inside you. A good way for YOU to cumm (this is one of my favorite positions) is for you to be on top of him sitting all the way down on him and rub your clit on his pubic bone as you rock your hips back and forth (you don't even need to move up and down, just back and forth with him inside you) and the pressure on your clit will DEFINITELY make you cumm.
Good luck, have fun and USE PROTECTION!
experience
Thats the same for me, With Doggy Style you can feel every groove inside of the vagina and it stimulates the penis alot more. And it's possible for you to ejaculate more than once during sex. I have before too. You and him should try positions that don't require a lot of momentum Try spooning. thats where he lays behind you and you him just lay on your sides and go really slow. Missionary works great too. Google ideas also.
Me.
I go like 4 to 5 times. each time takes longer. Blood flow has alot to do with it. He should workout more and get his resting heartbeat to around 55 beats a minute. He should also lift weights with heavy weights and alot of intensity, that causes your body to make lots of testosterone which makes a guy last longer. It makes him get hard the second or third or fourth time around easier. Thats some simple things HE could do outside sex. Also you could experiment with pills made for that kind of stuff
Ah, there is no hard set figure to how much time a guy will last. Depending on age, and all...
The fact that he was able to do it a second time and pleasure you to climax is a great thing.
The fact that he realized your virginity may have overexcited him.
See how things go in the next few days, weeks.
Please use protection.
Good luck
some guys just come fast, so to satisfy the woman, he should do a lot of foreplay, and also use his hand or mouth to make sure you finish.
he should give you head first.....i *** quick sometimes too so i always give my girl head first...b4 i even put it n iv already sucked her off to 3 or 4 orgasms....and my average is bout 10 min.