Is this unusual for a man, sexually?!

Three to five minutes for a man is pretty normal. If you want to climax yourself then have him work your fun parts or even help yourself out. Most girls do not climax from intercourse alone. Most need some extra clitoral assistance.

As far as climaxing without even touching him, its normal in the sense that its common. But it doesn't mean anything wrong with him.

The way you describe it, it sounds like you humiliated him in the process. Makes me wonder how long term he really is to you.

Most guys need to have sex with a girl multiple times before they can last longer. So cut him a break, especially if he shared his v card with you. Even if he has had sex before, he probably just really really likes you. So don't give him to much grief about this. You'll give him a complex or something that will affect him for the rest of his life.

You are confusing in your post.

First you said "without even touching him-nor him touching himself-he came"

Then you said "he lasted under 5 minutes".

Ok if I have this right, you messed around with him twice. He can fast twice. Maybe he is really inexperienced and you need to help him. The more you jerk him off, the more he will last. Also after he cums, wait a bit, then have sex. He will then last longer the second time. Sound like he is just really inexperienced.

The first time might have benn pre-***, but when you guys had sex... well, he might have Premature Ejaculation. Look it up here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premature_ejaculation

It certianly isn't permanent, he could buy a book that explains how he could ged rid of it permanently.

its not unusual but it doesnt happen often and he's probably just realy excited that 1 of his long time friends are doing sexual things to him

hes just excited!

First! but seriously that seems quick.