Why would a guy wait 2 months for sex??? Shouldn't he give up?!


Question: Why would a guy wait 2 months for sex??? Shouldn't he give up?
I am 20 yrs old and met this guy at a party. We have been hooking up for 2 months now once a week. We don't hang out or do anything else besides hook up. He took me on one date, but he wanted sex after and was annoyed after he didn't get it. I told him I'm not ready and that I need more time so he stopped bothering me about it for a few weeks.
He said when I tell him no it makes him want it more.

But I'm wondering why he has been willing to wait so long if all he wants is sex. Wouldn't he give up by now if that's all he wanted? But he said he's never wanted to have sex with a girl as bad as me?

I have heard from people who know him that he's kinda a player and hooks up with a lot of girls. So why is he willing to waste one night a week with me when he doesn't even get sex??? It's been over 2 months now. I don't understand. He is good looking enough to get any girl he wants. And a bunch of girls are always hitting on him on his facebook. Any ideas???

Answers:

Come on, he is a player and he is playing a good game. Just waiting until you give into him. He is probably getting enough on the side (other 6 days a week) that your one night of just hooking up doesn't bother him. And of course not, he is not going to give up yet, because I am sure he thinks you are naive enough to wonder why he is sticking around waiting, when you are not giving him what he wants. He is playing a great game with you and you are falling into every trap he is setting. Take that from a former player, he has his game plan already mapped out and you have not idea you are even in the middle of it.



Easy... one you are just a one night a week girl. He probably refers to you as his "Thursday" to his friends. He can wait a few months because he is most likely getting plenty of other sex on the side. He can get it from them when he wants, and will wait to corrupt you later.

My advice... find someone thats not a doucher...



Because you're a challenge.

And he's probably getting sex elsewhere so its not like he's totally doing without.



you sound like a pain in the ***... but the dude's patient... he's got a mission and wants to accomplish it



maby the like you ive watited longer for somebody ive liked



You are the forbidden fruit....



Hello I'm asif 20years old
i can understand ur problem girl its very simple my frnds also call me player
its like an addiction when u said no to him his ego got hurt and he was thinking y u said no to have Alex with a guy like him
sex is kind of drug which can make man to do anything for getting it and the main thing is he just wants ur lust that's y is he is waiting
sorry if i used any wrong words in this answer
take care
Allah hafiz




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