Is it okay to have feelings for boys and find them attractive?!


Question: Is it okay to have feelings for boys and find them attractive?
Im a 16 year old boy and is it okay that im bi? i like girls but at the same time i have feelings for boys and I like boys alot more and really fancy boys i find attractive. is that ok? im sure its perfectly normal, i mean it is me, but any advice on how to embrace it and build confidence? Any advice or tips on how to accept myself? I feel being with a boy feels right and good and is what my heart wants.

Answers:

Be who you are man. You can't change that. And you shouldn't. Be true to yourself first and foremost!

It can be a very confusing time in your life, i know. You are 16 but you are confused at what you want to do & be. I think it is great that you want to be open and be with guys or girls. Why does society make us think that we shouldn't be who we are.

If it feels good to you man, go for it.

Hope this helps you out a bit. Good Luck!

personal experience and research



Totally okay.

It's not so much which of the two you prefer that impresses me, as much as it is your open mind, willingness to follow your truth - heart body mind and soul, and see where that takes you. That alone, puts you about 90% ahead of most other relationships which don't even start out with even a shred of truth as their basis... and rapidly go downhill from there.

About the only thing I want to add, is just to keep your wits about you. Likely you have an attraction to those your own age, or thereabouts, and that's fine. Sometimes, however, younger guys can be lead astray by people with less than honest intentions, and get manipulated, taken advantage of, and easily hurt.

Not that I'm thinking this is the case here, just sounding a note of caution.



do what makes you happy....if you like boys, then be with boys, if you like girls then be with girls....adolescent yrs are normallly rough for everyone and its hard to be comfortabley with youself, but youll grow into it....



If you feel that this is what you want to be then do it i know i lot of bisexuals who don't care about who talks about in fact none of them care!!



Why do you ask such a question? This is 2011. Do what you want and don't waste your life away.
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Hey im 15. I think its normal. Im bi too. Do what you want to do. If you wanna chat my email is chrisstephenson1996@yahoo.com



im bi too u just have to not really think about it and it makes it a lil easier to embrace
if u feel like it chat me at shanecmma@yahoo.com
p.s. im 15



I see no reason for it to make you a 'bad' person.
I for one don't swing that way. P:




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