I lost everything and need help, I am a 27 year old male?!


Question: I lost everything and need help, I am a 27 year old male?
I lost my business, i lost my condo, which was paid in full (Lost it because i sold it, and used the money to gamble with). I lost my girlfriend, and i lost all my friends, because i never hung out with them, and i was a jerk all time to them. I lost my girlfriend, because i drank too much and gambled too much, and lied to her. I lost over 250k in my own money and assets and then tried to kill myself, which landed me in the mental institute for a few weeks. Now i am out, how do i get everything back and become happy again? Any suggestions. I havent gambled or drank in 90 days, but still feel miserable because everything is gone.

Answers:

think of one thing that really makes you happy that will benefit you a lot..the world is not all about money..try to regain the old you!start to dream again..then make your little step forward...do things steps by steps and stepping does not necessesarilly mean taking the big ones...!hope it helps!



That's right, start at the very bottom and work your way up again. As an idea, maybe you could find a job that assists others who are struggling/dealing with alcoholism/gambling. Sometimes the best way help yourself is to help others with a similar problem. By doing this you'll increase your own self-esteem, confidence and meaning in life. All the best!



I hope you are in a secure place to live for now. Learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them. Start over with better choices. If you had a business, you must be employable. Find a job and get support if you are battling addictions. Good luck!



start over from the bottom put your job first then make new friends find another girl work your way to the top if you made it big in at most 11 years last time then you can do it again and do it right



Job corp. or Military. Probably your two best bets, I would hate to see you on the streets. BEST OF LUCK.




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