I need men's opinions about my problem with my breasts.... Please....?!


Question: I need men's opinions about my problem with my breasts.... Please....?
First off, can I please only have serious answers and comments? I'm very self conscious, but please do not sugar coat it.... I'm looking for the truth.
Ok. I have a bad self body image because I can honestly say that I hate my breasts. So much. They are saggy (they are b cups) the aereolas are huge and blend into my skin. My nipples do not stare at you. I have small, saggy, not round boobs and I am so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I have stretch marks and not even push up bras help my that much. They are just... saggy and not pretty, at all. And I feel like breasts are so beautiful and I am a failure at looking like the beautiful and normal female body.
But I have to say, I am not conceited or anything, but I am really pretty and have a pretty nice body regardless of my breasts that I am SO afraid to show to my boyfriend. I never take my bra off in front of him even though he says they don't both him. I cry about them sometimes. I just feel like I'm this really pretty girl and these just RUIN me COMPLETELY. They break me down mentally and they make me nervous, ashamed, depressed, scared to be myself really. They get in the way of my sex life constantly.
I guess what I'm asking is if it's that big of deal to you guys if the girl you go out with, a girl you never had sex with before, when you see her breasts and they are like I described is that enough to make you leave a girl? Are you okay with that? How do you feel about it?? Should I try to accept them? Is it okay? Can I take my bra off when having sex and be okay with it? Stuff like that... I just want your opinion.
I know that if my boyfriend loves me truly he will accept me. I just want YOUR opinion and how you would feel and stuff.
Thank you.

Answers:

A boobs A Boob. They're all fantastic. I like the ones with the nipples like tiny bricks, the ones with big circles and little nipples, the saggy ones that fall in their armpits when they lay on their back, the perky ones that hardly bounce, even when a girls jogging. It's doesn't matter to me, just as long as I like the girl and she doesn't have any hang-ups, but if she did, I hope I could help her work thru it.



I guess its not big for other men too. In my end, i don't mind it is she has a big or small. Like in me i don't attractive in women that has a big breast what i like is enough in size.

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It appears that you are placing much importance on how your breasts look. Unless the condition is severe, to me and to most men it would not matter. Particularly if I like the girl. Very few women or men have a body without flaws. To get a really objective professional opinion you should see a cosmetic surgeon that specializes in breast surgery. The doctor can give you the best advice about what, if anything, needs to be done. Your self image is obviously very important to you. In that case it would be a great psychological boost for you to have the condition corrected if it is needed.



One of my best friends girlfriends flashed everyone at a party, and she had the same issue you have; very saggy breasts. Nobody was really impressed to say the least, but they are now married and in love with a child. Who gives a damn what anyone thinks because if they care, it's their problem, not yours (think about that, it helps me sometimes). Plus, she has what you have, somebody who loves them, so that's really all that matters.

P.S. Take your damn bra off during sex, I'm sure your boyfriend would be delighted.




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