Giving my first hand job?!


Question: Giving my first hand job?
Okayyy so I've been with my boyfriend about six months now and I've decided to give him a hand job... (The farthest I'll go until marriage is oral sex... We haven't done that either) anyway... I'm worried that I'll be considered a whore if I do this... Would I be? :/ but from the guys (and girls with experience) can you give me some tips? I've never done this before. (don't say "don't do it if you're not ready!!!" because I am :P I'm just nervous) I'm obviously going to use lotion, but what should I do while using my hands? Should I be kissing him? Should I just be watching my hands? Looking at his face? That's what I'm mainly concerned about :P and any tips on how to make it feel awesome for him would be great xD haha thanks! :)

Answers:

If you're going to do it, evaluate how far you want to go. Do you mind taking your shirt off for him, from a guy's perspective that'd make it a lot more intense. Also don't go crazy, you gotta kinda go at a pace, and then go really fast and tease a bit, then go normal. If you go to fast it won't be that great of an experience for him. You want to build-up, so that's why you it's important to set a good pace, and then start going really fast and tease him a bit, and then kind of slow down. Try using an oil-based lubricant, preferably KY jelly, or baby oil. Regular lotions aren't nearly as good. Also look for body language, how he is reacting to it. You know your boyfriend better than I do, but probably if he isn't saying much he's enjoying it. If you can watch porn, there is nothing to be ashamed about, it's WAY more normal than you think. Just don't become obsessed with it. As for being a whore, it depends what YOUR standards are. Sex is a great thing, in my opinion a whore is a girl who just goes from guy to guy, is trashy, has no morals, and does it just for herself. It's different from being promiscuous. Obviously if you feel you are mature, and are committed to him then it's fine. Don't worry about what other people think, the question is, how will YOU feel about this years from now.



Well you should not be considered a whore, but you might. No, you don't have to kiss him. You should be looking at his... you know. To make it feel great fro him DON'T have a firm grip on his... you know, have a softer type grip on it, it will make it last longer and it will feel much better for him.
Don't let him convince you to do something you're not ready to do.

Good Luck! :)



If you like you can always get some practice on me.
I could give you some tips and you give some pleasure. Deal or no Deal?



play with and be gental but it would help to give a ******* to because the together but have fun with it and make sure hes enjoying it



Don't waste his time. Just get right to the point and use your mouth instead.



hand job, put a little ******** or breast job. spit on his penis while rubbing the head with your tongue or hand. trust me he'll love it.



play with the nips while you do it.



No, it isn't slutty. I suggest a lot of foreplay...also, some guys like eye contact. Btw, your arms might get tired.



If you are comfortable with oral sex... why make him wait? I mean you've already said you're willing to go that far.... just saying.

Its not that hard. You already know to use lotion. Basically use one hand in an up and down motion on the rod and gently massage the jewels with the other. If you want to really get good at that, you just have experiment. Maybe get with your boyfriend and look up some videos online on the subject and try some things he seems to be into.

Eye contact is nice so is talking dirty. But he'll be more into the stimulation. Just don't dig into him with your nails and don't wear any rigid jewelry.




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