i need sex help from experienced people?!


Question: I need sex help from experienced people?
ok so im 16 and me and my gf are planing on doing it soon and it only takes me about 5-10 min to blow (when im looking at porn) but 15-20 min when im not looking at porn sooo do u guys think i will be able to last in bet long enough for her and whats a long enough time to have sex.....also she says shes never had an orgasm any tips on how i can make her have her first?

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dude ill bet you that you dont last longer than a minute. if you use a condom get one of those durex performax ones. makes you last longer, but depending on how you react to the stuff in it, it might completely numb your dick. then you cant feel anything. fyi dont use one when your drunk. i grabbed the wrong one out the the pleasure pack when i was drunk and i was going for over an hour. i got bored and just ******* stopped cuz i was tired



1. The first time you're with a new girl, you're not going to last very long. Just a fact of life; a new sex partner is even more potent than porn. After that, you calm down a little bit and can hold back the orgasm for a decent amount of time. If you whack it a few hours before going out with her that will help. So will wearing a condom when you're actually doing it with her.

2. She may want the orgasm but if she hasn't had one yet, chances are pretty good you won't be able to give her one. It's not you, it's her. She needs to be comfortable with her own body and know what it takes to experience that sort of pleasure. The best way she can learn is by masturbating. Failing that, you can try giving her oral sex, which works with most women, but again, she needs to be comfortable with her own body and that's in part a function of her self-esteem and in part a function of her experience -- neither of which are within your sphere of control.

3. Please please please use a condom.



You need to understand three things...

1. Masturbation is not partner sex, it is a completely different experience.
2. Communication is very important. You are not psychics and need to communicate verbally.
3. Comfort is everything. Get a quiet, accent lit bedroom with many pillows and clean sheets where you are guaranteed to not be interrupted. Ask her if she trusts that you will never do anything to hurt her, and that you want her to have fun. If she is not 100% comfortable with you, she will not orgasm.

Practice makes perfect, and your first time will NOT go as planned, but that's okay, because the practice is awesome!

Sex is supposed to be fun, not a chore.



If it is your first time having sex, you will have an orgasm in around 30 seconds to a minute, so if you want her to have an orgasm, I suggest allot of foreplay and don't be afraid of burying your face in her vagina and when you find a small nodule in there, use your tongue and nose on that nodule until she has an orgasm, then have sex so you will get off and you will both be happy.
Don't forget to use a condom so you don't have an unwanted pregnancy.

Fact of life



The First Time never goes right
so stop planning it.

If you gf has never had an orgasm = then i suggest this is the area
the two you need to Address before even thinking about Penetration.

So have an "orgasm session" or three and get used to giving her an orgasm
and loosen her up fingerwise with lube, and get her comfortable with her body.

Otherwise she is gonna be sooooo tight and you sruggling to keep hard
That it will be flop night.

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Your first time, my guess is you'll probably blow in two minutes. To make her orgasm, try plenty of foreplay, include fingering and oral. Hope this helps.



If you can last 20 minutes then you're doing very well. Many guys get so excited their first time that they orgasm very quickly. Some get so anxious that they don't orgasm at all. Don't freak out if either one happens to you. Nobody's "first time" is really that great. Sex gets a lot better with practice.

If she's never had an orgasm before then the chances are VERY slim that you'll be able to give her one. Women vary a lot in what they like, and if she doesn't know what it takes to get herself off, then she's not really going to be able to give you any advice on that matter. Almost every woman achieves her first orgasm through masturbation. Also, if she is a virgin too, then you should keep in mind that her first time may be quite painful for her. It's not unknown for women to orgasm the first time they have sex, but it's very rare.

If you want to help her on her way to an orgasm (even if you don't get there this time, but you might get there later), then it will help if you have a LOT of foreplay. Give yourselves at least an hour of "messing around" before you get to the sex. She needs to be relaxed and very aroused. Start with kissing and gentle touching, and move on from there. Massage is a very good idea for helping her to relax, and giving her a lot of non-sexual touching which will help to relieve any anxiety she might have. It helps to show her that you like all of her body, and not just the obvious bits. :) Some women like breast touching and some don't. Most women enjoy receiving oral sex (often more than fingering by itself), but you will need to focus on the clitoris more than any internal stimulation, and keep your touch gentle unless she tells you otherwise. Oral is probably going to give you the best chance of getting her to orgasm, but don't be disappointed if she doesn't get there. Sex is about more than just orgasms - it's about intimacy and affection. Let her feelings be your gauge as to whether she's satisfied or not.

Good luck. :]




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