Help with boyfriend and sex?!


Question: Help with boyfriend and sex?
So my boyfriend (18) and I (17) have been having sex for a couple of months now. Everything was going great and now, all of the sudden, he says he wants to limit how often we have sex and always comes up with an excuse to not have sex. It's either he's too tired, not in the sexual mood (even if something else says otherwise), wants to watch a movie instead or just wants to do something else. He always lets me do stuff to him but doesn't actually want to have sex. What could be the problem? Our relationship seems perfectly fine. We hang out and play around like usual and he's still his sweet self. What could be going on? What could I do to make him want it more? I'm not unattractive or anything and have a pretty toned body. He always gets hard when we fool around but doesn't want anything more than that too often. We cut back on sex from 4-5 times a week to once a week or less. Help!

Answers:

You said, "He always lets me do stuff to him but doesn't actually want to have sex." So if the stuff you're doing to him makes him come you will have to quit making him come so much without having sexual intercourse. I don't know how you're going to be tactful about doing this but it looks like that might be your only solution. When a guy comes he loses his libido temporarily. Thats just how it works with guys.



Well, maybe he is just tired of having sex 4-5 times a week. maybe you should shorten it to doing it 2-3 times a week. And I think its because your being to forward, don't make him uncomfortable. If you do this maybe he'll want to do it more. And what might be going on is he whats to shorten the times of sex that you do. And your not unattractive. And if you want him to do it more show him your body more, wear something sexy, try new moves. Hopefully this helped!



I can't imagine such a thing. He must be either getting religion or he is gay.



Perhaps he just got bored of the same things. You have to be inventive, and amaze him with new things, different places...



Aunna, it isn't you..or him. In these 2 months, you guys experienced new and exciting sensations and connections. It seems your guy wants to expand on your relationship, making it more about personalities, quirks and character, and not all about sex. If you weren't together, he'd probably be jerking those 4-5 times a week, but instead, he's having full blown sex. Even jerking can slow down without meaning a guy's done with sex. Let things run their course, and enjoy each other's company. After all, sexual stimulation comes in many forms and it's not always intercourse.




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