Guys, my boyfriend isn't that great at oral?!


Question: Guys, my boyfriend isn't that great at oral?
I am 19 and my boyfriend is 20. He likes to go down on me, quite a lot actually.

And it's nice, I guess. He's been with a lot of girls and he said he's gotten a lot of compliments on his skills. And maybe it was amazing for them, but it's just 'alright' for me. Like, I can barely feel anything most of the time.

I feel like he has yet to figure out what works for me, but I'm getting impatient because we've been together for almost a year.

I just wanna know what tips I could give him, like what do you do to girls?

Answers:

Most men are hardly expert when it comes to female anatomy. Besides, YOU like what YOU like and that's fine. You just have to discretely yet firmly GUIDE him in his efforts. And make a point of vocalizing your pleasure when he stumbles onto something good. Those Pavlovian tricks don't just work on dogs.



Men are pretty clueless as to the inner workings of women. Help him out, but don't embarrass him. Try saying, "hey, I really liked when you licked this little spot here..." Or guide his hands.

If that goes really well, get really frisky and ask him if he wants you to play around with a vibrator. He might actually LIKE to watch you play with it. Some guys get REALLY turned on by that. (Some == vast majority, all...)



guide him. talk to him tell him what YOU want.
stroke your clit easy
lick your lips slowly, tease the hell out of you.
going down a woman is great, i LOVE watch her squirm, and orgams under my touch & my tongue. then some severe cuddling. much more exciting then a guy coming. you are more animated when you reach orgasm.
then she does the same with me..good time for both.
your very good looking girl...relax...give the poor bugger some guidance.



will sweetie this is how it is men are slow learners u should know that. so why dont u teach him. im sure it is better then to be getting frustared. wish u luck.



Maybe you could give him hints on what you like and for him to try them out



tell him you are not interrested in it



Tell him all women are not alike and guide him. When he hits a good spot, tell him 'oh, yeah, right there, don't stop'. When he hits a bad spot tell him 'a little to the left', or 'deeper' or whatever. The most important thing is that you need to know what you like first. Don't be afraid to grab his head and put it where you want it. Of course don't add words like 'not there, stupid' or 'boy, you don't know what you're doing do you?'.

I give my girl a g-spot massage with 2 fingers as I'm 'orally caressing' her sensitive spots. Clit, labia, inner thighs, etc. It must be working because her face and chest turn a deep red and I usually have to gently remind her to breathe. :o)




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