I'm so tired of hiding who I really am...help?!


Question: I'm so tired of hiding who I really am...help?
I'm 16 and a boy. I am bisexual and I hate that I'm not out because guys won't be able to know that I'm open to be with a boy and I need to follow my heart and as of now I like a boy. But if I do come out all the girls that like me may either like it or may not like me anymore as in going out. So many girls like me they say I'm so handsome but I like boys and girls and I think their are pros & cons if I come out the pros would be people know the real me, boys know I'd be open to do anything, I know my true friends and the cons is losing some friends, that's obvious for anybody but idk what to do I'm so lost right now.

Answers:

Although you may be ready to "come out" those around you may not be ready for some one in their "group" to come out. The reaction of those around you will not altogether be supportive. If you come out now be ready for your social network to undergo some radical changes. I'd advise you to keep you feeling to yourself for just a couple of more years yet, once your about 18 then sit down with your family first before you say anything to your friends.



Be true to yourself. You're almost there, anyway.

Try to avoid presuming how others will react. You won't know for sure until you be Who You Are. You may lose some friends, and gain others. Not necessarily both at once.



Make an appointment with a mental health professional.

You need counseling.



Just do what you heart feels. No need to let the world what you are up to every single moment.

Be yourself and honest.



This isn't something somebody else can tell you this is a personal descision you have to make, and it's totally up to you. A lot of girls like bi sexual guys, they think it's cute whereas others think it's disgusting, but would you rather people loved you for who they think you are or love you for who you trut are, the worthwhile people will stick with you and in my experience not many people will give a crap.

When I came out I stopped getting abuse from people in my school. It really made my life better, but as I said it's a choice you have to make, nobody else

I'm gay




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