Why can't he keep it up?!


Question: Why can't he keep it up?
My boyfriend and I have tried having sex a few times. He will get an erection while we are making out but when we try to actually have sex, he loses his erection... I'm not sure why this is. I tried helping him out, it didn't really work. Does this mean I am not attractive to him? Or what is the problem? :(

Answers:

His problem is sexual performance anxiety... he probably actually really likes you, and is putting too much pressure on the erection

be easy and understanding, he'll overcome it

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Performance anxiety is the most common cause of losing or not getting an erection. It is the result of being in your head worrying about whether or not you will get hard or stay hard. Once you start to do that you get caught in a "fear of failure" cycle which keeps reinforcing itself. How to deal with this problem is explained in simple terms in a small inexpensive book on premature ejaculation.
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An erection problem is the inability to get or maintain an erection that is firm enough for a man to have satisfactory intercourse. You may be unable to get an erection at all, or you may lose the erection during intercourse before you are ready. If the condition persists, seek medical. Erectile dysfunction pills is an expensive drug but you can find generic version way cheaper but is as effective as the brand name drug

Erection problems are common in adult men. In fact, almost all men experience occasional difficulty getting or maintaining an erection. In many cases, it is a temporary condition that will go away with little or no treatment. In other cases, it can be an ongoing problem that can damage a man's self esteem and harm his relationship with his partner, and thus requires treatment.

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May be your boyfriend is virgin and he is afraid for something if happens so i will advice you to have a chat with him before doing sex and try to know what's the problem. ................ and defiantly it is not an disease or something the guy actually don't need a doctor........ and it doesn't mean at all that you are not attractive to him.



no dear it,s not you ! it might be stress, different medication can do it, maybe something is on his mind. you don,t say how old he is. if he,s getting up in years that can do it too.



He may be a bit stressed or pressure to "perform." It will come, be patient, and so should he.



CAUSE YOU'RE UGLY AS **** AND HIS PENIS IS LOOKING OUT FOR HIM...duh, winning




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