How to get your friend to masterbate with you?!


Question: How to get your friend to masterbate with you?
Were both 15. And I want to know ways to have it happen like games,questions or something lol

Answers:

My best friend and I started masturbating together at 13, but neither of us 'planned' it. It just kind of happened gradually (so it's not really important to your question, but message me if you want to hear it). After that first time, we did it every sleepover for years.

I did it with about a half dozen other friends too. It helps to be at a sleepover, but twice I did it with friends and we weren't at a sleepover. Several times, I would ask if he wanted to give each other massages. This didn't always lead to masturbation, sometimes it was just for a massage. But sometimes it did.

It helps to be talking about girls and sex. Then maybe ask how often he masturbates, how old he was when he started, could he ejaculate then or did that happen later, how long his penis is.
Then at some point you can say, 'All this talk is making me really horny. I'd like to jack off; how about you?' Or if you've asked about size say, 'You want to compare d!cks with me?'

I've read others say Truth or Dare is good. Truth can be about size or masturbation. Dare can be about taking off clothes, jerking oneself for so many seconds and/or jerking the other guy for so long.
Others have said strip poker. If a guy loses after already having lost all his clothes, then he could have to do some of the above dares.

Don't use these methods to 'manipulate' a friend into doing anything. A small percentage of guys will have no interest whatsoever in masturbating with another guy. But most guys are curious about their friends. These are just some ways to make it feel a little more comfortable.

The Hite Report on Male Sexuality says 43% of men say they did this as teens. Of course, a lot of guys wanted to and didn't, or would if someone else asked.
So, these are just ways of helping it be more comfortable for a guy who already has an interest. Most guys will if they feel safe, if they don't think someone is trying to trick them and then call them homosexual.

That's why you could also - when the talk turns to sexual things - say something like, 'Can I ask you a really personal question?' He will say yes because we are all curious when somebody says something like that. Then say, 'Well, I'm always wondering if my size down there is normal. Is there anyone you'd do me a favor and compare d!cks with me?'
Or say, 'I read that almost half of all guys masturbate with their friends, and ever since I saw that I've been really curious about what that would be like. I understand if you don't want to, but I think I'd like to try it at least once and see what it's like. Is that too weird for you, or would you do it with me?'

Those kinds of question/statements make it a little more comfortable. You've given him a way out that doesn't mess up your friendship if he says no, but you've also revealed first that you want to, so he can feel safer if he also wants to.



That's a quick way to lose a friend. And he'll probably tell others too.

If you really want to do this, you should have him sleep over your house (or you go to his) and start masturbating when you think he is asleep (wink wink). If he is interested, he may join you. But if he's not, and he is obviously put off by this, end it. Most likely, he'll be intrigued, but would probably not join you as it seems like a gay thing to do... unless of course either of you are gay.



I've got to sa, I'm a 15 year old guy, and that sounds creepy to me. I think if I didn't know you really well, I probably avoid you after that. Sorry, that's just my opinion.

straight guy



That's a difficult one. It really depends if he is interested or not. Just ask him that is the best way but becareful because it might harm your friendship.

Been there myself.



Thats a gay thing to ask a friend to do that WITH you.

Its REALLY gay big time for you to WANT to.



just ask, at 15 boys are pretty curious and adventuresome
i did with friends at 15

former 15YO



If you can't even spell MASTURBATE right, you shouldn't even be doing it.




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