Cant Stay Aroused While Having Sex?!
Question: Cant Stay Aroused While Having Sex?
we've had sex 2 times and it has happened the same both times. perhaps it is the condoms or that shes as wet as the Niagara falls but i cant figure it out.
shes allergic to latex so we have been using Durex non latex condoms.
also this morning in the shower i masturbated and successfully ejaculated while semi-erect not to receive the normal pleasurable sensation but only a brief pleasure followed by a short but sharp pain.
I'll be going to bed once again tonight no doubt with a teasing erection that wont be satisfied because of this.
any insight would be greatly appreciated!
Answers:
yeah your problem is sexual performance anxiety
you need to relax and don't put pressure on your erection... have confidence that it works
there are exercises to give you stronger erections too
here, check this out:
"Having problems getting it up and worrying if it’s Erectile Dysfunction? It’s most likely not…"
https://www.mistermanpower.net/blog/havi…
Ok this might sound original but KY jelly? Idk
Performance anxiety is the most common cause of losing or not getting an erection. It is the result of being in your head worrying about whether or not you will get hard or stay hard. Once you start to do that you get caught in a "fear of failure" cycle which keeps reinforcing itself. How to deal with this problem is explained in simple terms in a small inexpensive book on premature ejaculation.
There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is this inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully around the world for more than 32 years.
It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just google the author’s name: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.
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Justin non laytex condoms are suppost to be better feeling heat transfer and all that but dude it could be different and you are not feeling as much because she is so wet dude as long as she gets off that is what is important. after she is done then do yourself just be honest tell her that the new condoms are not allowing you to feel as much and you are not getting off like she is. then finnish yourself off. Dude some chicks really get turned on seeing a guy pleasure himself i know my gf does. sometimes she just wants to see me do it becuase she thinks it is erotic anyhow try it see what happends
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