Teen Erectile Dysfunction?!


Question: Teen Erectile Dysfunction?
Okay I'm 16 and gay. I have my first real boyfriend and we were making out very intensely but I couldn't really get hard. I don't know why! I was semi hard at that point. He tried to give me a bj and than I went dead soft. It was the most embarrassing moment of my life, not because I was horny, because I was ashamed. He was very good about it and told me not to worry and everything, but I am.

I have never had this problem before in my life. I have never smoked once, I am a healthy weight, eat very healthy, get a fair amount of exercise and drink very rarely. What could the problem be? I know it wasn't nerves because I am very comfortable around him. I was thinking maybe it was my dependence on porn? Because about 70% of the time when I jerk off it is to porn; so maybe I have become too dependant on visual stimulus and I am not familiar with visual and emotional stimulus? Someone please help me!

Answers:

Will you were trying too hard it is called performance anxiety we all get it from time to time you need to relax and just go with the moment you kept thinking about your penis all the time you were making out and then when he went down you concentrated even more and you lost it. dude performance anxiety is a common thing to happen. i got to do good i have to do good have to get hard have to get hard why is this not working what is happening hard hard hard.

next time dude just go with the flow get naked with him and enjoy being with him body body contact before you know it you will be having sex and it will be fantastic!

it happens to the best of us it has happend to me and this chick i freaked

curtdude



If you get an erection from having to pee in the morning or from other stimulating photos etc it is a psychologically induced problem. Perhaps you don't really like this person, or the situation or perhaps you were just nervous. Regardless it is probably just temporary in nature and you will get through it.



The mind is willing, but the body ain't.

First-time sex is a bit like learning to drive a car. To begin with, it's all stalls, grinding gears, and bunny hops. At least until you get good at it. No one has ever jumped in the car and burned off down the road doing 90. Give it some time, relax (most important) and realise you don't have to get it right/be perfect straight away. Only after the second time (jk).



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mayb your just not gay



It's not a dysfunction if it works all the time except when you're with your boyfriend. As said before if you're hard in the morning or when watching porn, then it has to be all in your head, because your penis obviously still works. SO, you are either uncomfortable with this person, you might feel guilty (for being gay? maybe for not telling your parents or something?), or you might not be gay. Just because you like gay porn doesn't mean you're gay, so maybe try some things with a girl sometime?




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