Why did it take so long for him to finish?!
Question: Why did it take so long for him to finish?
Answers:
How long has it been going on and how old is he? It has always taken me a long time to finish whenever I start up with a new partner. It just takes a while to get used to the new rhythms and such. Also, he may be so focused on making sure you finish that it affects him. I know that I have had situations where I hold back a few times and then I just can't finish. Also, using condoms can be a big issue. You can change to ones that provide a more natural feel. He may also be taking care of himself so much when you are not around that it is tough to finish any other way.
Lastly, you may just not be doing the right things. You may need to get him to open up to see what really floats his boat. There may be positions that are better for you but don't do anything for him. He may like a certain kink that he is afraid to bring up. It isn't that he is not into you, it may be that he needs that last little bit to push him over the edge.
A little more detail would help, such as how long you've been together, how long you make love for, if there is lots of foreplay, etc. All these factors could contribute. Talk to him about it and see what he says, and you can maybe work at it and try to 'finish' together.
he's taking his time and your trying to get done
try to finish multiple times before him thats the power girls have that guys don't
I had an ex like this, honestly I just didn't really find her attractive and it would take me FOREVER to finish...
Finished what?
No couple ever 'finishes' at the same time, thats just something for movies.