Would it be okay that i wait for the right girl?!


Question: Would it be okay that i wait for the right girl?
I want to lose my you know what with the right girl. When i'm in love and or get married. I can wait. I am patient. I'm 18 btw

Answers:

Unfortunately, guys these days are super pressured to lose their virginity. Screw that old concept of media affecting women. Us guys are pressured to lose our virginity too!! Stay strong and don't let anyone tell you that you're less of a man because you don't go around banging chicks. I'm 17 and haven't even had a gf yet, so I'm right there with you. I take it very seriously.



So what are you going to do if "right" girl doesn't come along.

How will you know, if you have no experience, that she is right.

If you are virgin how will you have experience to know how to make Love.

What virtue is there in waiting for something that doesn't keep.

Use it or lose it.

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There's this double standard that is totally unfair. Guys are pressured to get sex over with because it makes them more manly, while girls are told they're sluts if they give it up too soon. I think it's TOTALLY fair that you should wait for someone that's right for YOU, not just do it because there's a ticking clock. Don't worry. Trust your instincts and stick to what you believe. You are spot on!



Of course it's ok. This is the sort of thing that you have to decide for yourself. As a guy other guys may tease you about it but you have to do whats right for you.



I made that decision also. It took until I was 24 to find the right person, but it was and still is much more special and I'm pleased I waited.



the time and place is up to you but i would work on being able to use words like virginity and sex before you lose your you know what



I always think that waiting for the right person is the answer ^_^
And these days, the honorable thing to do. Stay strong, she will come along =)



I waited. That was 35 years ago & everything has been fine & dandy since day one.



there is no hury...patience is the key..a right choice of urs to wait for the rite gal...




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