Why does it take long for me to ejaculate? only way to reach orgams is by playin!


Question: Why does it take long for me to ejaculate? only way to reach orgams is by playing with myself?
Ok when i have sex with females, it seems like i can't reach my ending point. Longest sex i had is 1 hour (think) and to be honest it gets to a point where its irritating. I want to finish but for some reason i can't. When i masturbate I usually reach orgasm in about 5-10 minutes but when it comes to doing it with another girl, endless.Im 23 and i exercise a lot and i maintain myself healthy. Is that why i have so much stamina or is it a mental problem? I know many find it a good thing but it does have its bad side too. I love P*&ssy just to let people know. I attract a lot of girls but sometimes I hold myself because of this. i have only had sex about 6 times and it has always happen. WIll it keep happening? Thanks for the info.

Answers:

Seeing how you can masturbate and ejaculate. I would say it is because you are nervous or stressed that is delaying or preventing an ejaculation. You could wear a condom if your worried about getting the girl pregnant. Even if she says she's on the pill. Alcohol and drugs will delay and or prevent ejaculation. Also you could try not masturbating for a few days before you are going to have sex so you are super horny.



Yes, it will keep happening as long as you keep masturbating, and yes it is irritating and physically and mentally exhausting to the female where she gets to the point of,"why bother".
You have gotten yourself used to your own touch and your own technique, and in mind and body, that is what you need.
Stop masturbating and you will see what I mean, and unconsciously, you are thinking of your own touch and cannot be satisfied with anyone else's.



Why don't you just play with yourself a bit while you are having sex with the girl? You know like work it in there somehow. Or maybe the the girl needs to give you oral sex. I personally would find an hour of intercourse way too much and after a while a bit painful.



Well, at 23 you're a bit too young for keratinization to have set in, so it's probably mental. Try a guy for a change and see if that's what's meant for you.



I suspect you're in love with yourself. You're sexually attracted to yourself. You'll probably find you'll ejaculate faster if you have sex with other guys too. What you say you love is not borne out by your experiences, and only having sex 6 times with females at age 23 is not much sex with females. If you were sexually attracted to females you'd ejaculate with them.

Now if you were taking anti depressants, many of them do suppress the ability to end sex, and that's regardless of whoever you have sex with, even yourself. And just because girls are attracted to you doesn't mean you want to have sex with them. Trying to fulfill some family or society ideal for who you're supposed to be sexually attracted to will only lead to disaster.

There is a medical condition called "delayed ejaculation" which I suppose you could have? You'd need to see a doctor about getting that treated. It might be psychological or it might be a physical problem with your penis, but again as you report ejaculating whist masturbating, a physical problem seems unlikely.

Also if you were married to the same woman for many years and you had a few children, that might lead to less sensitivity from her to you, in the act of having sex. And I suppose it could be that having such few sexual experiences with females at your age, that all the women you've chosen have weak pelvic muscles and they simply can't stimulate you?



try oral before sex



So many men suffer from premature ejaculation that you should consider it a blessing that you are given a gift that will pleasure many many women. Perhaps young girls don't appreciate it but believe me you, an older woman will definitely appreciate your gift of pleasuring them for one whole hour. Try not to think of the end but bask in the pleasure. It is like this: "If you jump into a lake, is your goal to swim as fast as you can to the other side of the lake - or do you enjoy the water and swim in it a while?" You are not cursed, you are Blessed.




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