Problem Reaching Orgasm During Sex?!

Problem Reaching Orgasm During Sex?

I have this really strange problem, and have had it for a while with different girls and I can't figure out what my problem is.

I for some reason cannot reach orgasm while having sex, now masturbation, there's no problem. So I'm guessing it has to stem from something mental?

I had sex last night, for a little bit over an hour, my girl came probably 3-4 time's but I got nothing, and after a while starting to have trouble keeping it up. She's an awesome girl who I care about a lot but I feel bad because after we get done and she find's out I didnt ***, she gets upset and think's it something she's doing wrong, which is isnt at all.

Is there any pill's on the market or anything to help me reach my peak sooner?

I appreciate the help.

Thanks

I don't know, but sometimes when my boyfriend has a hard time cumming I just talk dirty to him. I tell him he can call me a little B**** and a nasty As* S***. Sometimes I say fuc* me harder you Fuc* a** *****, and when he gets angry I say, Yea get mad B****, then he normally comes, I guess he likes to be insulted while having sex. Maybe you and your girlfriend should loosen up and bring creativity into your sex life. When you masterbate you rely soley on your imagination to make you orgasm, so do the same with sex, if you have any fetishes, let her know. I hope this helps.