Do I have a weird way of Orgasming?!
Question:
Do I have a weird way of Orgasming?
Hi I'm a young adult, who is with a loving boyfriend of 7 months. I am young and active but do not seem to have the sex drive to match. I get really uncomfortable talking about how I feel, and the only way I've ever been able to orgasm is through either myself, or dry humping with my last boyfriend. This is really embarrassing, but its been bothering me for so long! To orgasm, I have to use the strong part of my hand thats under the thumb and push hard on my clitoris area and then move my body in a rythmic, dry humping manner, keeping the constant pressure. My new boyfriend feels uncomfortable dry humping me because that is what my last boyfriend did to help me orgasm. Help me please! Is there something else I can try? What should him and I do??
Answers:
~I don't think it's weird. It doesn't sound like your boyfriend is trying very hard. Whatever it takes, is what he should do. Why should he get his and you not get yours? Does he give you oral?
Have you tried a vibrator? Try this if nothing else works, it's pretty expensive, but will definitely work. eroscillator.com.
Good luck.~
**You should post this is Women's Health for more answers.