Can men "hold it in" and is it unhealthy for them??!
Question:
Can men "hold it in" and is it unhealthy for them??
I want to save myself for marriage, and my bf respects that, so we aren't sexually active in that respect. However, when we do get intimate, he gets 'excited,' and sometimes its hard on him because he says its frustrating to hold "it" in, meaning the ejaculant...
I'm wondering if it really is possible, or am i misunderstanding this? Also...is this normal? Do other people do that too?
Is it unhealthy?!?!!
I'm really concerned...thanks.
Answers:
He can hold it in, but it's probably hard to do. By not letting it go, he's withholding his body's natural response to sexual stimulation. There is an easy solution to this, however...use your hand. This way he isn't left feeling completely unsatisfied, and you're still a virgin. It isn't like he doesn't take care of business on his own, so what's the difference? I'm sure he'd rather have you do it for him.