This is a guys only question please....and not for the easily offended?!

This is a guys only question please....and not for the easily offended?

i will be having sex with my bf for the first time soon.( Our first time, we both have had sex before) I want to give him a mind blowing bj.....can you tell me a secret that guys like...or whats the best way to do it. I have done pleny before but i want to do it real real good......help please

We know its not a girl's favorite place to be, but you should try your best to enjoy the experience. Most guys would be so "blown away" by the experience, (pun intended) that you will be rewarded for your efforts. You should, at least, expect the favor to be reciprocated, and possibly an enjoyable shopping experience afterwards at his expense, for your efforts.
I can't tell how much of an intoxicating experience it is for a guy to get a ******** from a girl. It gives you power over a guy's sexuality. You should make sure to maintain good eye contact which makes things more intimate. Also some giggling and naughty looks will heighten a guy's arousal.
Foreplay is important. You could start by touching or blowing on a guy's inner thighs being sure not to touch his penis or testicles yet. Being a tease helps here. When you start playing with his penis, you can start by blowing on the head or even his balls too. The head or glans is quite sensitive especially the underside, so you should focus often on touching or stimulating that area with you tongue, lips, teeth and fingers. You can lick or even bite (not too hard) during the event too, as it feels so good. Also seeing a girl actually spit on a penis is so hot too! Pulling on the balls is great too; you can do this with either your fingers or your mouth.
You, yourself know whether you can deal with the taste of having a guy's c um in your mouth when he ejaculates. If you can possibly do it, I would recommend it. Its a powerful thing to a guy, its like you are accepting him. Conversely, if you can't stomach the taste, please don't just spit it out as this can be a subtle form of rejection to a guy. I know I've felt that way before. Instead you should try to make a game like trying to get him to ejaculate on a mirror so you can write your name on it...tell him you own him. That would be fine.
In addition, if you have a problem with hair down there, you have the right to expect a guy to either shave or trim the area for you first. Also I've heard that if a guy drinks alot of pineapple juice for a couple of days prior, it makes the taste of his c um better for a girl to swallow.
Good luck and bon appetite!