Why is masturbation not pleasurable?!
Question:
Why is masturbation not pleasurable?
When I masturbate, I feel no pleasure. It feels like I am just aiming my penis to go to the bathroom. When I ejaculate, I go into a trance-like state. I become dizzy. It is not overly exciting.
Does anyone know why I do not enjoy it? Do you have any tips to make it enjoyable?
I am fourteen, so I do not have access to special lubrications. I use hand soap. Could this be the problem?
My masturbating form is the average one that almost everyone does (The wrapping your hand around the shaft and moving up and down). Is there a more pleasurable style of movement that will not cause pain?
2 weeks ago
I forgot to mention this: I would look for more techniques on the internet, but think what I might find...I do not need to see men having sex with other men...If you have a sex-free website that has different techniques, please post it. *Shivers at thought*
Answers:
No pleasure? You need to have more imagination..thats 95% of masturbation..let your mind enjoy the experience and your body will surely follow. What fantasies do you have,,Picture yourself having a great encounter with whoever you wish...And get your self some lotion..soap will dry you out and not be as pleasurable..some men find just lying on their tummies moving in the way of having sex works for them....others also like touching themselves in the shower is nice. you need to find what works for you..and have fun....