Guys please help me!?!

Guys please help me!?

okay, so my husband and i are still newlyweds... and we still love eachother very much. we have a little girl on the way, but with that said, i'm only 23 weeks pregnant and not showing much at all. ever since we actually found out we were pregnant and he stopped "wrapping it up", he's had a problem with coming too quickly. he read on a men's health site that if you jerk it, it will improve your sex life in the area he's lacking, and in others... and as of last week, he said he was "embarrassed" of it and didn't want me to know about his self-sessions... so he was doing it while i was out of the house. NOW, he's getting abnoxious with it. i don't think he knows it, and i'm afraid to approach him about it, since i encouraged his purchase of magazines and ****-time... only because I WANT TO HAVE SEX. shyt. now i'm coming across problems like him telling me that i should stop talking because he has to be awake in four hours for work, then he gets up and "takes a trip to the bathroom"...

2 weeks ago
... last night he did this and he was in the bathroom for literally fifteen minutes, then walked out and tried to talk to me like nothing happened. i was already pissed at him for telling me to be quiet so he could get some sleep... then he goes and jerks it. we haven't had sex in over a week. and lately it's gotten down to once a week (only lasting like 5 minutes)... then this morning i woke up and he was at it again in the bathroom. i guess that's why he had to wake up so early. PLEASE HELP ME. i think i've created a monster. i know he would rather have me give him a bj than whack it, but he doesn't want to ask me...and i would probably turn him down just because our sex life sucks soooo much right now. how can i resolve this? is it normal for happy married men to masturbate this much, and ignore their wives? wtf? is this what it takes to get our sex life back??

Well, it is true that a jerk several minutes before having a sexual encounter will help a man last longer. You also said that he "stopped wrapping it up." This makes the sensation more intense because there is no barrier. What you two can try is possibly using a de-sensitizing cream or even Trojan Extended Pleasure Condoms. He could put one on just before the foreplay begins to give the active ingredient to take effect, then take it off. I have personally used them and they do work. Sometimes too well.
Breathing techniques work as well. Read up on Tantra or Tantric Sex. It give a lot of pointers on breathing and lasting longer; it works well too.
Ultimately, you two need to sit and discuss these things. When you bring it up to him, come to him in a loving manner as to not be threatening. Let him know that you are making suggestions, but let him make the decision on how to approach this issue.
Remember, Communication is the key.