19 years old...having erection problems with my girl. HELP!?!

19 years old...having erection problems with my girl. HELP!?

I started dating this girl recently who has quite a bit more experience than me (I'm a virgin). The problem is I can get erect when we start foreplay, but then I ejaculate before she even does anything! Every time. And I dont even feel it. It's really annoying, because I can't get it back up afterwards. Any suggestions? I'm pretty healthy and fit and all that.

premature ejaculation is a common problem especially for an overexcited newbie to the world of sex.

Try
a) regular masturbation to lower your sex drive some
b) learning more about yoru own sexual responses so you know what feels good and what doesn't as well as the feelings you get as you are reaching orgasm
c) more foreplay and more communication. Let her manipulate you all she wants but get her to stop just before you hit climax. Have her repeat this several times.
d) less concentration on her playing with you and more effort into you fiddling around with her sensitive bits. After all, sex is about two people sharing a mutually pleasing experience so in your case she is th eopne who needs more stimulation to bring her to yoru level of sexcitement thus making it easier to orgasm together.

And if all else fails, get some desensitizing dream and get her to apply it to your penis as part of foreplay; just be sure to have her keep her hands away from her sensitive parts and for her to put a condom on you before any penetration lest the cream also desensitize her.

And above all, relax more; you are too wired up when engaging in foreplay and it is causing some of your problem.