How do you tell your husband that he has sexual disorder?!
Question:
How do you tell your husband that he has sexual disorder?
I have been married for 14 years and I beleive my husbad has this sexual disorder called soft erection/fast ejaculation. He comes very fast. He always tries to make sure that I have orgasm before him (like performing an oral sex) but I had never had orgasm from actual intercouse with him because he comes so fast. I am also tired of the same tricks he has but too shy to tell him I want to try something new. He thinks I have no sexual drive but does not realize that he has a problem. Please help!
Answers:
sounds like youre hurrying.
slow down the process - more foreplay. when the clothes comes off, and things are rushed - that's what you get. Ten or fifteen minutes of 'warm-up' gets the blood flowing (everywhere) and provides more quality. If that doesnt work, try it more than once, he will be less sensitive the second time around.