Can i get help with girlfriends?!

Can i get help with girlfriends?

I'm going to be starting school this year in 9th grade. My girlfriends just broke up with me and we have been going out for about 9 months. Any tips on helping me get over her. And also, i have trouble getting girlfriends. This is my first real relationship and i want more like it. I have a bit of a pudgy stomach and "man boobs" This makes me self conscious. Can anyone give me ways to lose the fat off my body and get a girlfriend.

It seems you broke up recently so give it time. It can take a while to get over your first love. In the mean time don't worry about the physical stuff--think about what makes you a wonderful person and work with that. Start hanging around friends more and doing things with them because the friends you make in school are your friends for life. The most attractive thing about a guy is self esteem--if you aren't focusing on the negative but focusing on the great stuff girls are going to be drawn to you like a moth to a flame. Man boobs and pudgy stomachs aren't the worst thing in the world--I've dated guys with both and I'd consider myself to be attractive and they were attractive too--chub and all. To be honest all the sex mess, the partying, and even the relationships AREN'T at all as major as people make them out to be. I, along with most other males and females my age, would love to have stayed a virgin and focused on my friends and schooling over the minor stuff that IS supposed to be what you reward yourself with whenever you're finished with all the craziness of being a teenager.